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House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast
House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast

Episode 3 · 1 year ago

House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast; Consent

ABOUT THIS EPISODE

Our topic today was on consent. We played the yes or no game, we learned about planned parenthood consent rules called FRIES. or as we call them french FRIES

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...beginning. I was in like grade threeand I started knitting and I doubled and trippled my stitches every singletime. Oh my God. Really it was awful. I was tring to make a headband and my momwas like what the fuck did. You do to your fucking headband. She didn't say that I was aiing mess up.No, my grandma helped me fix it though she made it so that it like tapered. Itwas really cool. You know, I'm like was biving today, epose, maybemercuries in retrograde. Don't talk about that Sha! I don't knowo a Likei'm, just kindofviving like like. Do they have a control over us? Well,it cut also make sense of like the time when we're borned and the energiesduring that time do affect us. But I don't know if the plan its affect US'cause. That's Kinda. Like my that's deep shit, I I no I'm not, which Idon't know. I think th Wa or the ocean sorry affects us more than the planetsbecause it is contolled by the moon. I think the moon and ocean definitelyparked us. OUTSR UT was EAIN, not saing upon it. I believe in nothing exceptendining. I elieavein garden, I believe in dirt,so quickly. I want to Sav this today. We I had finished editing offhorsed episode, which means when this is being recorded. Not when you getthis all fource episode is Hat to actually be released tomorrow, so wecurrently will pre recording so that well we'll planning just so that wehave. We don't sow down and Y guys don't disappear. If you actually decideto stay at Ewil who will watch us from the beginning, the other Thanis, a dose love, you mnoe, we have the entire it's. No, we have the lit fan earlygirls Ar genernuntial terms, arri yeah. We should say that Golez goal and QueenWi weor gene neutral tomes. We are all quain guys and Gals is all ginnerneutral, just like for reference and dods andhomes and Bros Ya, wely laes to publish it Um, we'll probably going to cry when we doit. Oh Dude, I don't cry I'll. Take Soml of you Y E iere of o bes crying.Can you O me? No, I don't cry either so Wheni atme onyou, yes or no game there is that and wewill get to that. I have one with e. In my mind, are we still talking about ourlives? No, there was something else that wasimportant. Yeah, it's gone, it's like, Oh, yes! So,as he begin to crawl into beginning to uploat again I do anterminding. We dohave a pay Chonk. Now on our Patrion. We do have a goal. That goal does not just apply to patron. All goal is five hundred, I believe, followers or money, five hundredfollowers, my Gol five hundred money depositeve into my paypile Tho. Oh, myGod, you is a Lihe belows wer. You are not alie NSO R, five hundred fallo yrr Zam on nyon Ay Platform. So if we get five hundred and twent five hundred, not Fivfive hundred N Nstrm five hundred on Pateo five hundred and embo o fivehundred anywhere else where we can see the following, that will count our goal. Acly Jackson, I think you're aiming alittle bit low. I think we've got to go five. Oh One, five! Oh One! Now I'll change it laterguys, Eo five o one mollowers. We we haven't a litter idea. What our prizeis going to be, but we do want to hear from you guys Um,...

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Okay, honestly lean away from whichy'cause you're not going to get it with that it it just you know like if youput something in it is witchy vaze. No, I think more in if you pit somethingink more wide, have to say that I ao can I give you, hits I'm not going toabject to that? No moremes, I kno okay, Um, think more stuff that I bring toschool packpack. Oh, is it a Nolthook? No, Oh,that's thig! Think more delinkwe avry ask something than I othinmore Dlin, avape, yes Bu. What's the exact name of my baby? No, Oh, my God! You areserious yeah! No we're done! We lost it. We got to say t Hanna you aske. I T Eloving questions, not ten avry. Oh you have to listen to Mowhen. We saywe're done. That's all o our questions. I didn't hear anyone sa we're done.Sorry, Ky! What's what is it? It was my vape. I doit on Atito I don not advocate Purvede Piy. I do not either maybe we'll get tothat later. But for now les Abiin to or topic iguys were getting onto today's topic,which is consent. E dictionary definition for consent is nowpermission for something to happen or agreement to do something. It obviouslydoesn't cover all aspects of giving consent for sex. However, it's a goodbaseline Um for just like general consent. Iconsent can be given for all types of things or withheld for those samethings like. If someone asks you for a hug, you can either say yes or no,depending on what you want. According to plannparenthood, consentmust be given, freely must be, reversible is informed, enthusiasticand specific. Acronym is fries. You otht to have fries to have sex e can have bos and who doesn't likeCrie, and even if you don't like fries You'e gotta get consent for things. Idon't know everyone likes fries Kay. So now we're just going to readoff of the acronym, so F stancser freely, which both or all participantsin in activity gives sober consent to Chenanigans on their own. It's notcoerced if it is not consensual and sober is really the key word here. Youhave to be in your right state of mind. Yeah, it's tob also, I think, shouldmean not just not drunko high, but also Ike,not super depressed, not superimpulsive, not yeahsating, either not just sosurAntai, be n, think to a Ta, our Nex One dayt rerosible, even after consent, she'sgiven it can be rovoked, and you should respect that. That is Oky to take thatyour consent. If you feel like this is going to fall, oh you realize you don'tenjoy it. If you are not Y, if you're not feelingit just Ma sure you ask to stop, don't pretend like you'r fine, you shouldfeel okay to be able to say no to whatever you're doing and be able totake back the yes that you may have given beforehand. H Omen. Yeah apredanior is the best thing you should have a SAF for it Um and you don'tthink ahead. If you don't want to have like a sayword than just say: Hey if I say sop you hot to stop. Yeah is Topeso Yea Weni'v, on Tisra FORAD hardise. Everything should stop everything shut, therehe,he or se, or they should make sure you OK and if they don't stop, it is no logo,concensural and yeah. For that one, I think a lot about like Um like a movie like if you start a movieand then like you, get bored or like it...

...ends up being way freakierer than youthought, or something and just like ocked out sex is like a movie L. Maybe not Idon't know Maactualmi esaying movie to everything Plicei'mgetting McDonalds movies. I don't remember that really oi Feelin a onfeeling hat was a weedthing. I don't know people were saying it my Grad and they were making out with eachother, and I was really sad. I Wasn't included Aka wow movie, okay m. The next French FRY is informed.Al Pari on fries all parties, partners or group must be aware of everythinggoing on like if someone says or asks a person to wear aconom where they saythat they wre wear a condom or they will do something Um, but not another thing, and they do something like remove thecondent or do something that the other person or other people said they werenot comfortable with. That is not consensual unless you're geating, likesupercinke and you've, consented to a multitude of options, but wish to besurprised. Our all partys should know, basically everything that's going tohappen before it happens and EFOR enthusiastic. If all partiesare not excited about the activities, it is not consensual, one person saysmaybe and the other or others take that as a yes, that is not concensual, etCetera. Basically, if everyone involved, one thousand percent wants to partake,and there is absolutely no question unless consent is revoked, it isconsensual, yeah, that's a that kind of thing oflike yes, maybe, and no all mean no. I don't want to do it. Yes, of course, Sru those mean yes, it needsto be. You know smile on the face, yes SELA,she said yes did she say? Maybe, or did she say yes and althoughto add to that, as somebody who may be vulnerable like if you are kind of in avulnerable state during activities Um, you should try and avoid saying yes,unless you O hundred percent meat it to avoid confusion and hurt which goes back to being freely and Yoin the right state of mind yeah and it would. It would not be a result.However, it would really suck because a lot of people would have a hard time M. dealing with the situation yeah well head is revoked Um, then e onflect themselves, a lastpat of fench fries, French nobing Um. Oh, I enerty with a Frence me Thi Sister Park, my futer Petima Aasame on. Can you say that tolme sorry, specific, yes Ei can't say I can't saythat Ond O I want to. I want to remindlessnesess ido of a speechimpediment. I cannot speak all F. my words right noly comes out when I ars,but pecific is one of those words wher. I just cannot say it. No, probably noproblem, we love you anyway. I'm more saying that to the LSTNOWS 'cause incase, the hear me mess up a ward I mostl CEDID sayingas to want it to e,like kissing, does not mean saying yesanother Ata that asking askingpermission for any and all activities is a must and a need and something youshould do, and you also need to make sure you and your partners boundars allwerespected Yessir will said, especially since Iwrote it w we'e option topind all of this. Oh,my God. We can't give that away okay anyway,...

...but remember though, consent is notjust for sex. It's for anything N. everything that you do with anotherperson or to another person like serve them. Food hold them kiss them copytheir homework, for them for crimes we've Rad them for a crime, hoping Idogging me and Simonorly did that once and we asked a tiful what I'm Alota I bout ou I ersoynconspicuous, I don't even know any more dude do Jackson's being SOS thromoff the shit. I still don't fully understand like what Suss manes wsthscomes from yeah. I know I know I'm just like. I can't. I don't think that Ikeep thinking like Oh suckupboard, I'll I'll, explain how I know it offcamperso Um. Well, isn't it just among US Thwat, so consent is a really big deal, somethingthat is not just an Lt team matter, but alsojust of general sexual activity, Botte and also regular activity hanging outwith people. You know, if you want a a and Aall Goe you at first 'cause. Theymay not like McDonalds, that that is something that, like I love, that isthat we need to start making consentus o sexten and consent a nobalthing Yno. It has to benormalized and if a really don't talk about it, Anno Yeah- I not music o' totalk like if your kid does not want to hugsomebody, don't make them hug that person 'cause that teaches them thatthey have control over their own actions and the way others treat them,or at least they should yeahma, and also I remind her that you have controlover your own action. Yes, don't that's gettingto another fiel of things, FurLake? You are your own person before likeanyone else. You are what Mattr at most exactly toyourself. Somebody else values themselves more than you buteactly you, an Ojust of flesh and blood that can somebody can just use and dowithout asking permission, Yo well, a sole. You have rain your perpersonalityand that's something that should be respected and ask. If that's what youwant Leo Rs Final Nervous System, that pretty much all you are: okay, let's not freak them out, come on! That's why a late night, Parkd Asnot,no tear HEU HIVES on Geletin. In your bones snow you have and actually Elatonan Youl brain yeah you're actually inside the skeleton you have mucus inyour brain. That's true! The brain is an electricmeat sack that gets tickled by Um Saratonan,sometimes if you're lucky and a lot of other genete oiolgy me, let's get backant, I'm taking bio bionx semester, Yall e me too, you should, oh, my God, not vegorous an the. Am I biology biology. Um! Do we want to go? I can ender this out if yew as I wantedto do, we want to go into a bit about o experiences with consent. I'd be okay with that. I would like to sell with that. Then itIseos, oh Um. This is I'Mno. Put this Comin Chaseright here. This is Um a tigger wolning stand. We will betalking about consent and this stuff may result in behaviors that maybe triggering to somepeople Um. So this is just kind of a wall o boning that if we end up goinginto more serious topics, you might want to skip this pot yeah.So you can tur it off. NOW WE WON'T...

BLAME OT enough around. We won't we'renot going to judge you. We will try not to make any too many inside jokes willyou will gone? We just want you to be comfortable. Remember roadwork, aheadroad woke her head. I sure hope it does anyway. What does that have to do with consent?Is that a mean to as like? If there's roadwork ahead, you can't drive upthere, but, like you know, it's also a vine road work ahead. Sure hope it doesOh yeah. Ah, WHO WANTS TO START? Shall we go alphabhetically Orde? ThinkO? Do we want to do anti alphabetically 'cause? We already went alphobetically,Oh scary, yeah, okay, Aerobic Shi, IE, Savn Mebomalia, oneseason; okay, yes, Sir I'll go first Um. Okay, I've had like IV lot at ex one moment that you wantto talk about, and then I it is one of the trigerin start o say togoing yeahUm. Can I do like a couple yeah, I'm gotit. I don't think I've doany buttlso. I was not educated on consent until very recently. Oh me,neither like two years ago, Erylon mine waslike a few months ago. M Okay. So this first one isn'ttriggering unless you're squeamish about Um delinquent activities that hornyteenagers get up to me. I relieves the call ever you can hidefor a bit. No, I I'm okay, I'm okay Um! So I've had lots of positiveexperiences with guys if you, if, if I've, set out my boundariesbeforehand, which works the best M, you know deciding on what words to say whenyou want to stop. I prefer the word stop, because I think it's a turn off,if I say stop, and somebody does not stop ugeminantlajes and the guy I'm seeing right now really really respects my boundarieslike. If we are, let's say kissing and I say: Hey:Can we just like watch deadpool for a bit he'll be like sure, wante, anAkaroni and matter? I you know that's mariagematerial people, okay, he may watch this isis, maybe my best friend I am sosorry, I'm not going to say your name, though no you know who you are Um. Yes, my son in law can't wait umtrigger warning for this next part Um. You know for nonconsentualactivities if you're Hurd,by that you can stop listening right now, Um. So in February of this year I wasseeing this guy and it was kindo like a rebound out of like a really long termrelationship D. I didn't really know what I was doing. 'cause I'd only beenwith one person, he didn't really know what he was doing. 'cause he'd onlybeen with like one person, and you know I like knock out of my house to go see him.Ohwhich is kind of a red flug. If somebody asks you to do that, nothingOli id do I mean it was in the middle of the dayit wasn't like eatleast any can, but like my parents, weren't home hisparents, weren't home, you know stuff happened and I kindof bought like aweird Bibe when I got there, but I was like okay yeah, let's like do stuff andwe were doing stuff as kids do and I kindo wasn't into it and I waslike hey. Maybe we should play video games instead and he was like no- and I said, maybe you should getthe fluck away from me. Btyou say hope, so ohdude be robby, get the puck awayfrom me little whole man. I wish and...

...then she said no, Sir and I kinda couldn'tsop him and it was shitty. So remember, Ladies Bring Mace to yourDickappointments, well, theres, no B, pappersprainparried on the deck yeah, that's Nice, but like it's Bar Spray, oh I want tofluck it and that that another important thingabout consent is that if you don't consent, it's not your fault, exactly MHM! It is you donot you for notnd. Also it is a hundred percent oky to break noses. If you donot consent and somebody is doing something that you at in Sidetio offentioself, yes, osalaesm s, aslelf the fence will come and Inter you and ifyou only keep cookies I'd, also like to say son that I'm just I'm very proud ofyou for a milt. Far you've come so that's onight, Lettermio Esabl, a I'mlike really happy for you, I'maggressively knitting Ev di ocks too. We love you so much. I felt continuing youmoreguessing. Yousaid you're, multiple one more! It's food related Nice. So I was seeing this guy and he waslike. Do you want to order some wings? And I said yes, let's order thespiciest fucking wings. Ever they were called suicide wings and we ate themtogether. Ovas the time I shat myself, okay, but I content to do it: OASIDE,okay, inev, that is a shown of consent. Thatis not sexual! Yes, okay, do you guys Wantna move out Um? Yes, its jacksons stern tushare. So I'm going to do it's not exactly oum.No, my mine is about a different ype of conten SORTO, we'll go into it. Hereis.Another Cigaoni Min Simula to Samons in that is, is what children do except minis be online hm. So I was o going to do that, likeit O and I'm home out, like you do yeah, but I din't want to send anypictures Ain Fo comfrtl with I didn't, want Imto have those Um e said no, and he presher me and eventually he shut up'cause. Then I D Teyl you I'm gont LE, cannot talk to you and then the next eHo do it and he pressurely. It was a cycle for so long and it was like very much like justjust do it just do it and then one day I sid find Tomol, and then I blocked it. So like that to me to me it wasn't toobad. I got out of there. I was able to just delete it. It wasn't real life,but that's nothing if someone's pressuring you and they pre, like you,pressure them into saying. Yes, that's not consent, well sit it it's not. That is a no thatis yew forcing them and that that was Cyper bullying thatwas ybablndead, ass and ot. Wrong were warfom short part, very illegal. That's child pornography,yes cansolr out of you Jackson and you leave my lip jutted out. Just then andmade me sound like a three year old, we're very proud of you yeah. I loveyou so much be ex in you're stupid and I love you your stip. Oh my God, that'show I show my lup. This is Osm, okay, Um, so I have one and obviously not sexual good, but mine is one having to do with...

...a family and how you can be likeexpected to like show certain typs of affection. So it was about two years ago. I think and my grandparents were visiting and on the day that they were supposedto go back. I was feeling not great, not fantastic Um. So I, when my grandma came to askme for a hug because they were leaving. I said that I'd rather not and Um Ike told her I loved her, butthat I just didn't feel like giving her a hug and what she didn't know after is thatI heard her h complaining to my grandfather about not hugging her and how that made her feel so that that was a little, not fun. Butstill was my body. It was my space and my grandfather actually advocated forme. Oh, we stand your grandfather. Yes, welove him very much. We love both of them. We do and it can be so hard for somefamily members to understand boundaries like that, but you do have to explainit to them. It's all a learning process. CYBAND, we love it, absolutely love it. COEC yesamazing, Um. I've taken my slotpill now os your Um Rargr. No, my Alisinna, oh just like okaythat's, what it Um so tonight. WE WE DON UM SON, so um make sure everybody that you catch up on a past. EPSODES willhave been up by now: Um, yes, sirs thatold, odrano tr. That is say that was a consent ing. If you haveany more questions on contept, you will make sure to have a titlepost, a Tumbl Post, apatrion post, maybe in a scrandpost and a links to help you figur more outafout consent when the stuff is posted. So when this pposted not when we'rerecoding it, we will send that stuff out. I also believe we will put up theUM sexual sal hotline and the domestic abatopline that is going to join. Yes,drawing us on one of many calls. Thith Hav been one on all ofabios Yeh, so asRemin, so s to kindend up again make sure to watch our second episode, whichwas about being cear, H, foop, SOS ABOT coming out and make sure come back nextweek. I believe to watch episode on a sexuality whichwill have avery be taking the fall. We W catlay. I love it as a Lemotion, so doyou want to say the social movies, your in Childo? Yes, our social mediais thatI am in charge of are fuck. Okay, you can find us on Insedramat House of cards under score podcast twitter, at lgbt, underscore deckPatrion House of cards, website, house of cards, lgbt com, sash wicksite, andfor a h, social medias that I am currently charger, but probably will befalong. You can find no Tumblo at Inthe House of cods anopatron Athouse of cods. Thank you so much Fosi. I don't thinkthere is anything else we need to talk about today. Unless anyone else ays. Anything IOLIKE OI, want to say something or...

Noi have no thoughts head empty ead ofJo. I forgot how much fun knitting is. You should all try it at everybody,Tryn knitting. That is today's Homewook, then remember the words yes, maybe Kno,and what all of them man, let's Sh, acually? Yes, it's dinsiastic meansabsolutely go ahead unless revoked. Yes, if it's unenthusiastically, it means.Maybe you should like ask a couple of questions but aground before youproceed. Make sure that it's like good, you know that they don't just have amonotone, make sure that or make sure that they're actually consenting. Ifit's a, maybe I would assume no and if it isn no do not proceed with anythingat all assome. That is a repressure and now Ibelieve this is when we say goodbye. We hope we get. We hope we get to see. YouWi'll not really see you, but here from you in the coming weeks before wepublish on new episode- and we hope so far that you enjoyingthe Hoso carit. If again we are pre recording so of any of yourrecommendations or topics are not hard and the Um like next to pardcast. That is onlybecause w we are about two paled casts ahead Yeh. So eventually we will hearyour things. If it's a big issue, we will do to do it imu immediately. But,yes, we are excited to see you next time. Fi guys see.

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