House of Cards: An LGBTQIA2+ Podcast
House of Cards: An LGBTQIA2+ Podcast

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House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast; Bisexual

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Today we played would you rather and talked about bisexuality and what that means. 

Hi, welcome to house of cards and LGBT podcast. Basically, we're gay as fucking we like to talk about it. ha ha ha. Hi, I'm Jack. Then I go by he hum pronouns and I'm currently dying inside. That's a mood. I'm a very am I have she her pronouns and I'm suffering from the ladybug effect. What is the Lady Bug Effect? That's just like, because you know when lady books get too called, they hibernates like. That's just what I call it, like in the first few days when there's snow, because everyone's like sleepy and doesn't want to do every anything. Oh facts, okay, nice someone. Hi, am Samone. I used she they pronouns and I'm going through Shark Week. It really sucks. I wanna die. Uh. That is our next top the PABIC for today Shock Creek. The topic for today is bisexuality. Come out forest. We'll get to a topic later and before we move on to the topic, our instagram is house of cards underscore podcast, our twitter is lgbt underscore deck, our patreon is house of cards and our website is house of cards, lgbtocom wicksitecom. Something I don't know. It's on our instagram. I think, yeah, it is. What are we looking for? Oh, I'm just I'm telling people where to find our website. A website. Is Not on our instagram anymore because I've been switching out for the spotify. Okay, Soh Smart, just so that people can easily click it. I can switch it back if we want. I just did that just for no, no, no problems. I wish what we're going to talk you're going like way too quick. We got its. We've only started this episode for two minutes. Some like swellowy, though. We will get into that, trust me.

But we also want to say. A lot of US probably, we probably sound tired a bit because we're all tired after we could one episode and we've already recorded one episode. So I think we're all just a little like getting to the end of the day. Oh yeah, I'm right. It's like a o'clock. That's an hour before my bedtime. The grant your grandma's best. It's no time for my bedtime because I don't have a sleep schedule. That's our topic. Having honey, I'm gonna buy you Melatonin. I already have Melatonin. I just like suck at taking it because I have dreamless sleeps. Bro No, but I last night at that my aunt had a rivalry with a four year old with a really sophisticated name. That was just the Mon that for your just them summone. I hate children and because of this bitch named Ed would some tea from earlier, boyfriend wanted me to tattoo a playboy buddy on his ass. Did you? I got to the point of drawing it out and then he had to go because his mom was here. Y'All want how was summons during later? That's why the mom was to go home so quick. I am home, I mean, you know what I mean. Likely. Sorry, I forget. We don't have a student yet. That's when will which as it gonna pass some spells later, so that my cramps go away. Do you have the energy to even? You should do it before bed then, because, like, you sound tired and, like I'm Shure, I to you do that. Just gonna like die. I don't know. I think I'm just gonna do a little bit of meditation so that I don't die from blood cloths. We still got to say. Yah. Know, as a reminder me, it's some own both pract switch...

...graft. So if you are talking spells and meditation and influence and all that Shit, yeah, that's because we practice. I need you do a Tarot card reading tonight. Know Me, that's all I'm trying to practice is I do a Tarot card reading just to get I understand no words. It's Jackson. Is it safe to make your own pendulum board, because I know it is not safe to make your own Wegi board. I saw. I don't see why it wouldn't. That's just the telling the pendulum where to go. Yeah, my Wegi boy make Weiji boards all like on a monthly basis. I remember when I was like twelve, I did them once a week, every joe. Wegi boards like the things to contact ghosts. Yeah, Bro, that's so much too. At school it was so much fun. We'd hang out in the gender natural bathrooms and play with the WEGI board and ask of our teacher was an asshole. It was a vibe. You could scare me. I have like this thing against Wegi boards. We used rings, is the plant Chet, which, looking back, is not a good idea, because I wear them. My friend mom, when she told me not to mess with the Vail between life and death, and here I am being suicidal. Well, like I cuz I don't believe in anything. FLUCK, I hope my there pistas is not watching. If he found out I'm a podcast watching Listitun in here that and be like, oh, so, Jackson, do we want to talk about your latest episode? Which episode, the Manic One or the podcast one? We do just saying Jackson. For some reason I feel like your therapist named should be Maurice. It's like I should bring a notebook to my next therapy session and write something down every time that she writes something down. That's why you're in therapy. Therapy a free I mean, would it not be great? It would be broke. My hair...

...is growing in orange. It's what the let you know. That's how you know your hair is fucked up, really starting to show themselves to the world and they're growing in with a tinge of orange. So are you with ginger? I don't know. I think so. Oh my God, you're so speaking of my ginger brother got a mullet today. Oh my God, fucking hell. So I think that's when my brother has a mullet, your brother has a mullet. My my best friend's Ex has a mullet. They're coming back. They're ugly as verifying, but they look really good on all girls. Okay, facts. So ill, game for today is on. Would you rather? I think we're going to go with I know we played would you rather than beginning, but this is we have to think of the would you rather? Oh, okay, T oh, you stop, whoo, some one. Oh Shit, okay, would you. Are we doing like gruesome ones or like just easygoing ones? Something that's not going to get us like reported? Okay, because I pull from the movie. Would you rather? But, like, I'm not going to do that. Kill Yourself. Have you ever watched that one? It's fucked up, you really. I don't want to watch it because I've part of so many fucked up things and I watched it. I wasn't really bothered by it, though I couldn't Abe. That's why you're in therapy. It's horror movies, though. Okay, anyways, Um, I like hidn't seek. Oh, I haven't heard of that one. I like it. I think it doesn't see something like that anyway. So on. Would you rather hand in an assignment late for lower marks or not at all, late for long late. Oh my God, my anxiety spike the moment you started talking. I'm not getting zero for not...

...assignment and when I can just deal with the sixty, like fuck. That is Zeros are worse. I don't care why. People like I just want better than a five or a side that of the zero. Lets grow. Honestly, I think about that so much. My teachers are so passive aggressive when I handed in late, which deters me. That's so bad. She dressing like agnoledgers. Should like in really like encourage like. You know what my music teacher does? I don't know if I want to know. She gets a list of all the kids who handed in their assignment late or not at all. She reads it out to the class. Oh my God, I hate her. Oh No, she's great. She does it like in a joking manner. Okay then, baby, that though, magic. hevery. Do you WANTA? Who? Sure? Okay, would you rather meet your great great grandparents or your great great grandchildren? My great great grandparents are probably racist, so I'd have to go with the grandchildren, grandchildren, so that if they're racist, I can at least say I'm your great great grandfather. Shut the fuck up. Honestly, though, I would love to have great great grandchildren because I remember when I was younger and I'd go visit my great grandmother, we used to sit on her floor, like at her retirement home, and make her bracelets out of those little like beat kids you get from the dollar store. Oh, that's so cute. Never took them off. My brother would make so many for her in her arms would be covered like a two thousand and twelve seen girl. My grandma like likes to spoil US and sometimes I noise my mom. Yeah, that's the thing. Like, as excited as I am to like be a grown up and be a mom, I'm so much more excited for when I'm an old lady. You...

...aregue. You already all I mean, like physically okay, what you can do write is I actually, I don't have our thritis. I've been tested for it. Me Too. Oh my God, I have vocal Dystonia. Fuck, I've been talking too much. Oh, it's your turn. Come up with a would you rather? Yeah, Jack, and sorry, I do. I just literally my folt was like, HMM, you've been talking a lot, but having freaking water bitch. Would you rather wear all black with a black sweater in the hottest day of the summer, or spill catch up on a white shot? Catch up on a white shirt black. That's what it is. Through the estating common can just beat email together and then a res they're trying to scrapt catch up off of the show it. Oh my God, no, I'm so sensitive for temperature. I forgot that. Let's say you want, though. Let's say you want like temperature. If I wasn't, yeah, I'd go with black. Yeah, catch up his doors. Well, to get on your shit. CATCHUP and grilled cheese, though, catch up and group. What I shouldn't make never have you got had tech of skilled cheese? Oh my God, I've been doing that for years. It's so good, like because it's like no Gusto Sup. Oh my God, what? That's your turn again. I'm really disturbed. Um, would you rather put catch up on grilled cheese or would you rather hang yourself? Catch up on killed cheese. It's so good. I swear you gotta try it someone tonight who you have to just fucking try and stop being...

...a little pussy. You are what you eat. I'm a pussy. Okay, just let it go. You're pussy. In like years, years. I'm only sixteen, Bro, and we know when you started. When did I start? Jackson? Thirteen? No, fourteen, what the fuck? Nose? So a way tooch on, fould you rather? Okay, UM, crap, I'm so in original. Oh my God, would you rather jump off a table with jump off the moon? Okay, would you rather, all your always have your hand smell like hand sanitizer or all your ways have your feet smell like garlic? What kind of hand sanitizer? Both of the Tequila kind. Oh fuck the Quila kind. I'll take the hand signed is a Bro. Both of those are reality for me. I don't want to go see someone anymore. Why do you think ever songs all the time? I don't know. Because, like you have weird Wat's on your foot because you're all which, no, to cover up my mushroom lady. Actually, I love your mushroom lady, completely unrelated. Oh my God, that's like the other day I couldn't stop drawing pictures of like women and I just sent them all to some owns grow. I had that issue for about two weeks and then I tattooed one on my body and I'm good. Now. You hear the woman would after I naked. Woman, Tattoo one on your body, Yo, and you drink water for the rest of your life. Like drink only water, only water, or only drink orange juice for the...

...rest of your life. Water, I guess, because I need it, but I own it, I honestly. Okay, if you drink enough on shoice, you'll be fine. I drink coffee and I drink tie tea lottes. That is it, okay, I I needed water. I need to live. Doesn't drink the water anyway, water than orange juice. I got to be honest for a second. I had an orange juice addiction a few years ago. I'm so sorry for bringing this up. I drank nothing but orange juice for so long and then I got thick and we went to the doctor and he said that it's because there was so much vitamin C in my blood because I it's drinking so much orange juice, and I wasn't allowed to have any for two weeks. Oh my God, but w a diption, bro I drink orange juice when I'm sick. That's why I don't like it that much. I LOVE ORANGE TO WE'RE gonna move on to our topic now, really where it's at, so everybody knows what we're doing and it's on the thing. Some oh well, beginning. Hang on, hang on, Oh my God, favory, if you want to start, never saw us all. I definitely will. The term bisexual is used to describe a person who explain variances from Lotional, romantic and or sexual attractions to, or engages in romantic or sexual relationships with more than one sex or gender. That sounds polly. I'm going to say instead of that, is like one of the binary or two. Yes, wow, that was working. That was kind of like. The thing is, it's not necessarily within the gender binary. It's just attraction to two. So to be bisexual, yeah, the men and women, or you could be attracted to women and end bees, or...

...you could be attracted to men and envies, or you, or you could be attracted to and bees and women. Yeah, actually, yeah, that's a big thing about yeah, I sectuality. Yeah, so it's just it's a lot of sense. Good for you, it's just do that. Then the gender binary cut up. Yeah, big thing about bisexuality is like clear, is like Queer. It can mean very different things to very different people. Like the buy it. Like what we say before is like maybe non binary and female or night, you know, stuff like that. I realize I said non binary and female twice, but like, women are just so pretty. Yeah, agreed. I have a boyfriend right now. You're worth from this. Seemed to this what creees women are. I mean, he can and disagree. I mean, I don't know. I sent him pictures of hot women all the time. What you that's beautiful. I know. Okay, bisexuality also doesn't mean that your ratio between the two genders that you like is fifty. It's defined as liking to or sometimes more, depending on if you like more and your preferred label is bisexual. It's defined as liking to or more of the many genders. This doesn't mean it has to be fifty percent one gender and fifty percent other. Personally, I'm like eight twenty. Honestly, I lean very hard towards guys, but just women have such a special place in my heart. But do you add a so valid do these? Oh my God, so daddy. It's it is fluid for people. So it can change, like throughout your life or your discovery of yourself. Or whatever you want to call that, and dating someone of the opposite...

...sex doesn't doesn't mean that you're straight, or dating someone of the same sex doesn't make you gay. It just means us who you're with at the moment. And, honestly, bisexuality and other labels similar popisexuality, such as pimp sexuality, and I forget the others right now, on these six. That's yeah, you're getting it. Yeah, they se labels like that are pretty fluid in who you like, and they do. For me at least, they do tend to change a lot. Yeah, that's that's ballad. A's fucked. Yeah, that's on your catch frights. Valid as fuck. Validity, can we call followed as well, because I'm you. Fuck. Yeah, I'M gonna get more tready. We gott that be it so great? We're caught every handnets all of it. It's a set's up, also well, making up the be and lgbtq plus and all the other terms that make many believe that bisexuality doesn't exist, which is simply wrong, and bisexual people suffer from buy evisibility or ways and by negative from both the lesbian and gay communities as well. As that had or extra community, which is really sad because, as an ount to be the community, we should be accepting everyone who is not holding someone else or being phobic to anyone else. Yeah, so forever. Yeah, bbt community, as long as you are not hateful, exactly, like, just be fucking, except, except fail and realize that people are valid. You can't feel with it. Valid is fuck. Think that's total catch phrase. Valid is fuck, valid is fuck. Yeah, let's get going, though. Maybe I use ivory. Dude, we...

...lose every actually, no, we might have ivory if we if you want to just continue on, then I thought I can. It's up to you. I thought I heard every Giggle, so I did too. Oh, hery, we lost you the HEP. And actually, I'd like to add on about like. I'm here, you're good. Every I live in the middle of nowhere. That's what happened. Um, so I think we lost a very stuck blows Simone. Do you want to continue, though, potter? Do you want me to? I can, Um, so just finish us off then. Okay, cool. Bisexual bisexuality is a very broad term. It has been used in many different ways and you should remember that. As long as you're not hurting someone and not being bi felt bike. You're valid as fun. Some websites that you can visit if you believe that you may be bisexual is coming out guides, the two thousand and nineteen by plus youth report coming out as bisexual to your doctor, AHRC's brief guide to getting bisexual coverage right. Will put links either on our instagram, our twitter or, if we can, we'll put them like with our spotify, if that be like a thing, because I'd be problem. Definitely try to. I think I'll. I think I can get it going. Yeah, sick. Yeah, anyways, make sure to follow us on all of our social media, which includes house of cards, underscore podcast on Instagram, lgbt underscored deck...

...on twitter, House of cards on Patreon and House of cards something, something, something, don't wicksite. Yeah, yeah, so so someone, do you want to talk a bit about your bisexually, because we saw like a lot of time left. Oh yeah, of course, UM, lost are a little too soon in the Oh. Yeah, so I've known I was bisexual for like a pretty long time. I'd say like eleven is when I started like kind of questioning it. When really wait, Eleven, eleven. Well, when I started questioning it because I'd see girls and I'd be like, I want to be their best friend. Okay, I'm going to be their best friend, we're going to talk all the time, we're going to have sleepovers all the time and I let me see who booms. Yeah. So I would say are an eleven was when I started liking girls, but I didn't really realize it fully or accept it fully until I was about fourteen. Wow. I kind of just stayed in a realm that was comfortable for me and that I know, or that I knew would be widely accepted by society, and so I kind of I don't know. I would look for guys who seemed kind of feminine or guys who I just liked in general, and I'd be like, I have a crush on them. That's me too. And the thing is I would see like my favorite TV characters growing up were Rory Gilmore and like, I don't know people like that, and I was like I if, okay, I'm straight, because I'm like Rory Gilmore. I don't know. It's been a bit of a journey and I'm still kind of figuring out how to exist and feel. I still don't know how to and I'm not bisexual and feel valid in my sexuality, especially since coming...

...out recently, like actually coming out where my parents weren't drunk. Do you want to talk about you should talk about that, like we would have about that. Tell us about it. Oh, so this happened quite recently. It was but two weeks ago, and me and my family were sitting around a campfire and so me and my brother do this fun little thing where we call each other the F slur as a greeting, you know, as siblings do, we degrade each other. Yeah, it's not really okay for him, but there's really no changing his ways. We've tried it, yeah, we I've tried so hard. So I've just stood there and watched. It's kind of just a sibling thing. He doesn't say it outside of the House, which is better than yeah, and my dad like he he called me the F slur and I was like you cannot say that, dad. He was like why not? You and your brothers say and I say, well, I like women, so it's okay for me too, and then he said no, you don't. You've literally only dated guys. Your girlfriend beside, you know, tea and then I just started lifting off all the women I've liked. What I actually I never slept with a woman. Cut that out, but like I see straight, I'm not cutting it out of your my set. I would sleep with a woman. Is just I get so nervous around women. Really, it'd be really shocking. Like, not invaliding you at all, but, like, let's say you found out you want bisexual. You were just straight. I know, like and you're on the gay podcast. The thing is, I just really, really enjoyed kissing women. I know that for a fact. I like enjoying kissing men. Does that make me gay? Are you attracted to men? Put the fuck up.

Well, are you what? You're cutting and and out. Oh No, I'm joking. It's good to get ready to go. This podcast on your shoulders. You bisecuality, going full soon into the bisexuality continue. Yes, I'm sorry, being being bisexual is definitely a struggle, Balas fuck as being anything but straight is, and it's definitely a journey, especially when there's a couple different factors to think about when you are considering giving yourself a label or not giving yourself a label at all. Yeah, bisexual the is also like I'm shocked at how bad they get it because, like, there's a time when I thought I was bisexual, so I was doing a lot of research in it, and bisexuals, like I am shocked by how, like go getting hit by both sides, and that's like disgusting to me. Like, I can understand this stray gets a bit, but the fagots, like the fuck is with you to think that you get to be phobic to any to another sexuality, like you don't get kneecap privileges revoked literally if you're BIPHOBIC, like, go, get a life. Okay, you can hang out with your partner. I can hang out with my partners or partner and we can all just have half respecting the polyamorous there. I see, me, see. Listen. Okay, we gotta get into boat armist. That's a fun, oh, romantic entrance. I know someone we could have on the PODCAST. Me, Bitch, Oh, you're probably ever. I didn't know. Okay, say too, I'll join them. I mean, no,...

I'm not going to say that. Well, we're recording. I don't know. We can talk after. Yeah, exchange numbers. Yeah, exchanged numbers, because we don't have those yet. My guys. I'M gonna ask Jackson for his phone number. I can't wait to lea stop Vlog if we ever lived the other to for you just just stop flogging literally, oh my God, blogs while having makeup fish t we're practicing. You're practicing little, little physically for the girls in the gays. Okay, that's it, the girls in the gays and that's it. Fuck I you see a fucking Cryro pactors this. Oh, bisexuality is an interesting sexuality to me. I think it's one that a lot of people no offense that in but default to, which is, yeah, amazing, because it makes sense and some people feel so comfortable there, and that's valid. It's followed as fuck bitches, all the sucket bitches is on next one. Honestly, even if you don't want to define your sexuality, but you do lean more toward being bisexual or being more fluid and who you love or who you are sexually attracted to, that is completely valid. Like, I know people who do not define their sexuality but they really, really love poking up with women and men. Akaye me he like, will fuck like, like and if you don't like, you feel like the bisexual Tom fit you, but not the tone, like it doesn't check out. Queero, we have a bit. We have an episode on it. Yeah, they're gonna have an episode on Con Sexuality, Amisexuality, any other sexuality. Like, if you're curious, stay for a while, maybe you'll find it and maybe you'll find that we're not too bad after all and decide to fucking stay. Do it. You're valid. That's valid as fuck. And also on our socials. Let us know what you want us...

...to cover, whether it is sexualities, gender, sexual health in general, mental health, or if you want to Indie with us. And if and if we don't get under it too quick, that's fine. Yeah, we will do that. Maybe, if we really decide to, will even do like a fan dd thing want eventually as like a prize, summone, just betos, that I vito. So I can't bring up that fucking idea ever, can little bit. Never Fu but hey, you are valid, y'all, and nothing, no one, nothing, anybody can tell you otherwise, and if they do, they're not valid. I'm sorry. You're valid, unless you're homophobic, oh, phobic, just a phobic in general, transplement LGBT phobic, but then I kind of understand. But like, spiders are kind of cute. So you know what else is kind of cute? You, I was gonna say you obey Bang. This is why we need a pretty here. Oh Yeah, if you're listening, we'll see you in the next one. Yeah, if you don't, yeah, we don't see you soon. See you in the next one. Guys, be a by thea buying my.

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