House of Cards: An LGBTQIA2+ Podcast
House of Cards: An LGBTQIA2+ Podcast

Episode · 2 years ago

House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast; Asexual

ABOUT THIS EPISODE

Today we talked about Asexuality, The different types of attarticon. what asexuality and aromantic mean. We play two truths and a lie, and a had a lot of laughs. We hope you enjoy this episode

Hi, welcome to the House of cards, LGBT podcast with your local will not local your gaze for tonight, days for tonight, bevery if you want to start introducing yourself, no problem. Hey, y'all, I'm averyen and I'm still working on my octopus. She's a book. Go, yeah, Promo your book. A very avery. What's my book? Oh Yeah, Um, I forgot. It's generation free and yes, on Amazon. Go give it a read. It's amazing. I still need to get my coffee. That's actually on my Christmas list, so say I'll make me feel a little gift tonight anyway. Sam Oh, hi, I'm Simone. I usually heard a them pronouns and my neck hurts like a bitch. Me Too, we know what you would doing last night, sleeping crookedly, shaw too. I haven't care about saying that on the UM. My name is Jackson Right. I use a see him pronounced, and I I can now knit. I've loved how to knit and so proud of you. Thank you, mother. Thank you mother. I couldave cookies and milk now, Kay, okay, Um Otions. Oh, I feel like this is so disordenized today. Um, you can find us on Instagram at House of cards, underscore podcast on twitter at lgbt underscore deck on Patreon at House of cards, and our website that avery runs is house of cards. To LGBTCOM wicksite. We'll going to move on to I think after today it's going to be some Moan even doing all of the social media's, even if they're not running it, so that we can say this so again, hopefully watching this on this of course you know our spotify, house of causing ltpt podcast, and we also have a patreon in which you can follow where currently it's not really anything. It's just like our twitter and stuff, but it's there when we need it and if we stopped to meet it. But if you go on a patreon you can see our goal and, as a reminder, our goals for any social media. So when we get five hundred followers on any of us, no, sorry, got it wrong. I got it wrong. It's five hundred and one. I remember from last time that five hundred and one. I feel so good a five hundred and one followers on anything. I think the plan is to do a q Qa. Yeah, so it sounds good, but that is can get five hundred followers, five hundred and one follow us. So that is not for a while. Oh my God, guys, today I got out it as a podcaster and music. How. What the fuck? I'm not letting my school know. The thing is in music past project. It's a ten minute podcast about like music we enjoy. That's on our instrument, right. And is that this my teacher? Do any of you guys like record podcast for yourself? And I like raised my hand and I was like, Oh fuck, you were heavily judged. I was heavily judged, especially by my violent teacher. Why would I mean like looking you like? Didn't they ask? I mean, like I've mentioned it, but I haven't like told anyone that we've like actually published it. I'M gonna Promo it at school all the time. My Dad watches this. He's not, no, he is watching this one. He can't watch the last one. Yeah, you guys, you guys can say how to my dad. I...

Jackson's Dad. What's his name? Jay? Hi, Jay, how are you? He's gonna Smile when he us. It's just gonna Smile and God be so happy. Your sounds awesome. Okay, quick for the Gay Agenda for today. On today's podcast we are going to talk a bit about the spooky, the spoopy season, boopy. I don't know why. I said it's spilled a wrong. It's just spooky. When't we all know it's spoopy facts. Oh, apologies, spooky. Oh My. So we're going to talk a little bit about that. Then we might have a few of the conversation between because we'll gay, so of course we don't know what we're doing half the time. Then we will hang we will playing, at recommendation of Simone, to truth and a lie that someone can make us wonder if they really did that or if we actually a good kid. After that we might talk a little bit about some other things, maybe a bet, about what we have planned in the future, dinner, trauma, if we feel like it. You know, whatever the they leads us. And then we will get into our topic, which, if you remember film last week, will be a sexuality with our very own yeah, I'm even wearing my asexual colored flannel that Simone gave me. Yeah, that it. Yeah, we stand. I'm so ready. I thought I was a sexual. I could see wow, hey, freaking out. It was like, what the fuck? I'm shocked. I know it doesn't seem like it would be true, but it is it is not true sexual, but I thought I was. And don't the stitch. I'm starting new stitch actually right now, because my stitch base today I think I kept fucking it up, so I was going between the yawns. So I was just repeatedly in a new area, which means my entire thing is so full that I can't use it anymore. Oh, but that's why I was using it as I'm not making anything, I'm just literally just kind of playing around. I'm just playing with it. Yeah, so that's nice. It doesn't matter that it's like not walking. It's the point. Spoopy season, happy. Yeah, October. What do you guys all planning to dress up as? Oh my God, I'm dressing up as the red imposter with a group of people at school and we're all going to pick who the imposters at the start of the day and play a big game of like tag grew at the day. That sounds like so much fun. You're just you homework. What your task is? To Do? Homework? Yeah, our tasks are to go to all of our classes. Well, actually, YOU'RE gonna fail to do all of your tasks. That sounds like so much fun it is. Wow, I mine is definitely not as creative as that. Me and Ibriel just patting on being like ourselves. Well, I'm not actually planning anything for Halloween, Halloween, but on the eighteen this weekend my mom and I are doing a halloween are a class. So she's dressing up as a clown and, because I'm UN original, I'm just wearing my same elsa costume that I wore last year in the day home. That is so cute. You are adorable, was Elsa. I mean it makes my self esteem like go really high because all the little kids run up to me and they're like, oh my gosh, I love you, my God, it Elsa. Oh my fucking God, it's Elsa. Oh yeah, it's it. It does wonders for my mental health. Not even gonna lie. Therapy. No, Elsa Costume, yes, Oh yeah, let's RAPA.

We Know Elsa Costume therapy? We don't know her in this household, absolutely not. We are mentally stable, good children, nothing more. then. You can't even get through that with a straight face. I'm your dog is yelling because he knows who's dog. That's my dog. Yeah, Averite, your dog is yelling because he knows like Jackson lying. I never lie. Oh my God, I only tell this truth. Uh Huh HMM. Are we all like kind of feeling shitty today? I feel like it's been kind of like a weird well, like I had a therapy saster. I'M NOT gonna lie about that, because there is something we shouldn't have to hide. So I like had to deal with my trauma. Yeah, good for you, that is good for you. Definitely never in a good mood when you have to go back to like the shitty things in life, you know. Yeah, are you doing it? I mean, I'm having lady problems. Fun. Oh my God, I wish it. You want to tell the podcast what has been happening with you and you'll be issues me. Yeah, because like yours is pretty fucking interesting. Oh okay, so so no friends, savory, ninety SI, no problem. So so far I am late by ninety seven days and I started birth control probably about thirty days ago almost. So it's been a time. Should it should start ticking in. Then then the first pill pack. So like it'll kick in and like a week. But it was like twenty days ago or something that I started taking birth control. But anyways, it really sucks. How are you feeling with that? Like, have you been feeling as if, like, emotionally, you've been getting it, or is it like Um, before I started birth control it was shitty and then for the first week I started taking my birth control, I was so suicidal. But after that week I was good. I've been good. I'm happy, guys, except for Bitch. I fucking hate her. WHO's girl, who's like trying to steal my boyfriend? What? How much you want to bet she watches that? We're all she's crazy. She she probably would, just to get to know information on you. She's like threatening this at me. I tell her to just she should just go up and stab you to you. Okay, we know what Jackson thinks about some Moan. Yeah, Jackson Loves Somemon, I do. I think Samon is the easiest person to stab. mean, but okay, because, okay, so me and my friend will watching Zombielon last night, right, and so we're thinking, like, what would our friend group be like with? I want to think I'd be em a stone, but I would definitely be Jesse Eisenberg. Yeah, me too. Know, avery, I think you would be the dad character whose Badass at killing zombies. Oh, yeah, that dude. What's his name again? It's a yeah, he plays hey mist and the hunger games. But I feel like every you would be a Badass. Yeah, like you would. Just you would go all out, like nobody touches my children. Honestly, facts, every time I go to Babysit, I run through every single possible scenario in which an intruder could...

...break into the house and every single way that I would lay down my life for the children. That is an unhealthy thing, is it really? Yeah, thinking about how you're gonna die for other people. Is it so? Yes, yes, it is. Okay, don't try to like justify being sad. It's a sad yeah, sure it isn't. No, my mom is literally the exact same way. She said to know you're both sad. Rip, okay, and that commat man there really called out ches. Fuck, do we just want to go right into two truth and a lie? Yeah, sure, I'm just writing my note right now. Yeah, Simon, if you want to do you want to stop, then I have one more to W soode. Okay. So just give us a minute. A way we can talk about your sadness. If you'd want? No, come on, are you mine with Folsof Math, David Avery re since two thousand and twenty? Okay, okay, so you truths and a lie to in two, Mexico three, I've panned a socks and I'm never the impostor in among us. The lie is I've never been. I've never the IMPOSTOR. And among us, because you were literally impostor, propos started to call like I near yes and the impostor, and then I lost so terribly Fu I can't believe that biggest lave ever taken me thinking you're gonna be something small. I'm only smart when I'm playing with you. Guys. Are you ruin? Not Really. I always catch you. Hey, so, when I remember playing with Simon, I'm always the one to catch Simon doing something like either venting, okayling someone. It's always me. Um, I have a question now, yeah, what say a question again? It's not we're all that. Hello, sumone's dead. It's just us now, sure know. Well, UM, well, I like literally in Amanath. I always, I always catch someone doing something dumb. It's like it's just the VIBE, vibe, it's the vibe that I say that way too often. It's awesome that way. Too often. Can you guys hear me now? Yeah, you lotome one for bid me and a meat trying to come from someone not being here. It's the how do I try every will you also panicking? Not Really, I was. Pannikin was like, yeah, I am, said Miss Keisha Misqui did. Okay, go off, and this is my favorite vine. So funny these Keisha every do you want to go? Do you want me to go, because I have mine ready. If you don't sure, I'm literally just going to come up of with mine off the top of my head anyways. So if you have yours and go for it, okay,...

...here we go. So my two tooth and a lie. I want to be vegetarian. I've been to Disney land more than six times and I normally don't like playing the DM and D and d last ones, a lie, last one. What do you mean? What do with this? I'm like, oh, that makes sense, because, like, not everyone likes being the DM. You're literally always the DM and you love it. Please fuck you. I do like playing to play out, but DM's fun off. So yeah, literally, to each their own. To weeks, I'm actually been to Disneyland Ten Times? What? Yeah, I've been to Disneyland twice. Yeah, Oh, yeah, okay, I went to Disneyland once and Disney world ones. Yeah, fuck up, Pemonia, too rich areas. Okay, Um, darn, Kay, I have to thank okay, my name was Emma for thirty minutes. I bite my nails and I never got my learners license. The last ones a lie. The last ones a yeah, because I remember your you talking about like driving and stuff later our earlier this year or something. Yeah, I drove to your house once. Oh Yeah, you literally drove when we with hair, I did. I'm an idiot, all, yeah, we both were. I for second I thought it was the MLA because I knew for sure. You Bet your nails. You knows look like it, but how like I do? Okay, so, so farn now. I wasn't named Claire for thirty minutes, though. Okay, it's don't around two, because that took us like like a few minutes. Where are we do this? I think we'll get it, just because we'll being really quick. Yeah, okay, so just gold fight, just stock to stop saying things me. Yeah, my final grade in math Tennessee was sixty nine. Percent Um. I didn't end up taking Jim last year because of Covid so now I have to do it this year. And I attended every single calm class. Ie, um, I think the lasted everything. Yeah, last one. Oh, I skipped every single one. I passed with the sixty seven whole. Fucking Shit. Wow, I'm a genius, Carol Fine. Oh, my teacher stuck at Miss Luike, if you're watching this, fuck you. Oh my God, aggressive. We're going to move on to my aggressive, but I have a real life sigh. Oh, sorry, I have a real life side pony in my room. My Grade Nine Jim teacher bullied me. Didn't everyone's? I wanted to fail fast. Last one's a lie. Are you sure? I really don't...

...know. It's either the pony or the science one. Yeah, you gotta take a gamble. Pony. I weirdly feel like the pony is true. You guys to see your horse beside me. It's like, no, I think it's an actual pony. I feel like it's a cardboard cutout. So you are you guys going with the Pony? No, science, okay, no, you were suspicious only because I said that. You have to go with you gut. I only said that every if we said that. Oh, I thought you said it to my hearing a suck. Okay, some ony one. I have a lifeside pony in my room. Oh my God, I clean my room, but it was. Oh my God, is it a call? I have? I have almost filled time. Nope, it's like you can ride at I feel my goodness. Fine, so failed for every okay, okay, gotta gotta just start saying things. This is so weird. I only sleep with one blanket. Not True, I have it's the blankets. Okay, yeah, I'm so bad at this game. There's one a pause imposter among us. Okay, we'll go for one more round and then get into a topic. Okay, I'm so bad at this on my God, I'm not fun at Party these Um my brother is entering university with basically on a rolls in mechanics. I bring a coffee to school every single day and I have a friend named Carson. I feel like it's the last. I feel like you can never be friends with a US and personally, like I feel like someone's name was costing you. Just say fuck off. I don't have enough face in your brother. So I think that's no, I think, because it's in mechanics, I know, and that's what that was what got me. But I don't know, man, I know that's the carte. You both are wrong. It's the coffee. It's a cottony. I got a monster. I can't believe that. I thought we should have known that, though, like, okay, my ton, you have that little faith in your caffeine addiction. On Stars. Like worse. But yeah, it is. It is worse. No, it's like worse. So my daughter would be so disappointed. Good, I fuck. I only have one coffee a day. My favorite animal is a Unicorn and I only sleep with one pellow last one's a lot. You both agree with that, because, yeah, yeah, it's the Unicorn. I only sleep with from pellow cycle bath. Yeah, that's that's weird, man. That's more hollows on my bed, but when it's time for that, I throw them to the other side of the bed and sleep with one. Oh my God, how I'm psycho bath. I'm a sleep with that loose three. So I thought you guys are going to think the coffee one, though too. Know you. I believe drinks a cough. No, only one offfee,...

...a day. Only one, though. I mean coffee thing. You good, avery. Do you want to go? Sure, I guess I can't it. No, I've only been out of the country twice. My mom was proposed to buy my dad with a teddy bear and I wrote my first novel when I was twelve. First One's a lie, ashly lost one. Yeah, yeah, and force. I think it was gonna the first one was going to be a tooth, but I'm like, no, the other two seem more real and I'm like a lot of family vacations, though. Yeah, you, I think I know where there was one, like right at the beginning of two thousand and twenty, but that feels like seven year scale, seven years ago, mood Ta. So do we are we ready to get into our topic? Yes, I got yet that videos. Yes, ma'am, especially because the mom Yo got start. A sorry, Oh, yes, I am going to start us up again. Our topic is a sexuality. Samon, if you're ready, take it away. Yeah, okay. First to lay out like kind of like a premise for the whole a sexuality thing. There are six types of attraction. There's sexual attraction, romantic attraction, platonic attraction, esthetic attraction, emotional attraction and sensual physical attraction. So one could you quickly say what a lot of those mean, because I think maybe some of are views may not do what they mean, because sexual, romantic makes sense, but maybe put tonic and esthetic and emotional they may not make exact sense. You got it. Okay, I'm going to explain all them because I feel like it's so sexual attraction is when you feel attracted to someone in a way that makes you want to have sex with them. Wow, wow, wow. I know some people might not know that. Um Romantic attraction is when he has really strong feeling forward someone else, like maybe kind of love feelings, Kinda I like you will lot, let's hang out, kind of are you the imposter because you take my Otoo away kind of feelings. Wow, Canada Chen pickup line? I don't know. Statement. Okay. Um Platonic attraction is when you really want to be friends with someone, which I mean sometimes can be mistaken for romantic attraction and vice versa. Sometimes romantic attraction can be mistaken for platonic and sometimes platonic can be mistaken for romantic. Actually, fun fact, there's a word for having a platonic crush on someone, which is very you want to be friends with them really bad, and that's called a squish. Me With Abrie, I you. I used to think every girl I met I wanted to be best friends with them, but really I'm just a raging bisexual. That's a know your spicy straight shut the fuck up. anyways. Actually, I don't really know what aesthetic attraction is. Is it like you're attracted to how someone looks esthetically? I think, yeah, what's just someone like you're just like puck. I want that, like the physical beauty of someone, I guess.

Yeah, like it's more and like you can be esthetically attracted to like a sunset. It's just like you really like they that something is or so the way that something looks. Okay. So, like how everyone, no matter what, is attractive. beyonce. Yeah, yeah, I get. Yeah, I guess. Um Emotional attraction. I feel like that's kind of like romantic, but emotional, I would hope. Fuck, give me SEC lost my headphones. Brittain notes. Do you mind if I just take that over, Cook, because I have an idea. Yeah, so we have romantic right. Yeah, we plut tonic and unless I'm going to fuck this up in about five seconds. Let me just quickly read. Yeah, so we have platonic and romantic friends and love interest. Emotional is that family love, is my thought of it. It's kind of what that family love fits because you're not always friends with your family. You're not always romantic. I hope you're not romantically into your family. I mean that's when you emotionally attract as your family and your emotionally attract as to fellow human and helping them. That's just my view on am if you guys wanna. Yeah, I think that. I think that makes sense and I think that emotional attraction is like kind of relative to like empathy and sympathy and kind of like just like feeling having to make feel better or wanting to share your feelings with someone. I love it. I okay. Last one is sensual physical attraction. I would assume that's kind of it's probably in hand similar to sexual attraction. But yeah, I think if like when we know a small bleach bond friends right, yes, we all know who I'm talking about. Remember all small bleached right now and remember how like I'll just grat like remember when we hate it out, I just put them on my back and ran with them. Yeah, yeah, that I feel a central attraction. Facts like just that puddlene and will mean hand. That's right, my boyfriend like that too. Oh right, yeah, we know him, the Funny Haha. Man. Okay, so it's probably like associated with touch, not necessarily sexual touch, just like can I have on faith and I have Houg? Can I have Keith? Give Me Keith, I'm really kissed. My going to sexual a little bit? Well, I feel like pack up. I think it's like what me and you did when we were wearing a mask, when I saw you some kisses where it's like not sexual. Worry. I feel like if your ton is going down the throat, that might be a little bit sexual. Yeah, I'm talking about like text, Dude. Yeah, what a lovely conversation, I know. After we talk about sex, let's go on to a sexuality, the smooth a sexual I can do this. Let's let the man speak. No, you assume Mu Gent enough. A sexuality is a sexuality in which somebody experiences little to no sexual attraction, like all friend, a free but it is very fluid sexuality and varies in identity. In it. In terms of identity, sorry, my brain is like on do do juice and a sexual force are all kinds of attractions. Are Not at all so like...

...offering. Every may think that sen sense really cute, but when they see a titty they say no. Sorry, I can understand not experiencing sexual attraction. Book boobs are so pretty, which can often go in hand with a romanticism, which is a little to no romantic attraction, which is completely valid. And they see a lot of people saying that's you mean selfish. But if you are a romantic, you are not selfish, you just don't feel it. Don't be discouraged. An asexual person can have liberto and sexual desire, but may choose not to act on it. Lubyo, right, I don't know what I mean. So Liberto is like your sex drive. Well, you know, I think it's pronounced Libido, Libido and company. Or then a sexuality is a very broad term. It's kind of like an umbrella term for other sexualities, such as demisexual or gray sexual, which can be only having sexual attraction after you formed a deep personal relationship. So that would be like beginning with emotional attraction and then possibly ending with romantic or sexual attraction. Sick. Okay, okay, you can even use terms such as saphosexual, the attraction to females, female appearing only, Androsexual, the sexual attraction of male, male appearing only, Bi Romantic, the romantic attraction of males and females, Sapho or andro romantic, and even Hetero romantic and Homo Romantic. I am Homo and Hadro no, I okay, strike it. Oh, so it's not the same as a see, is the same as taking a vow of no sex, if I'm correct. Oh No, yes, it's not the same, because you choosing not to any sexuality as well. Again, like any other sexuality, it's not really a choice as well. But many a sexual people do enjoy having sex for multitude of reasons, ranging from pleasure to craving physical connections with someone. So one it's not a choice. And to any sexual person meet choose to have sex at one point in the life and that is valid and you are not to be a bitch to them. Don't be a bitch. Nope, bitch, don't do it. Also, be joist it. Also, it is not like they're missing out like that's now, not at all. You don't have to meet someone you don't like, have to be fixed. Yeah, there's nothing wrong with you. There was never I mean, I must remember, remember, that romantic love does not have to equal sex and there are many ways to feel physically intimate with someone without having sex. Most important thing about yes, the most important thing about asexuality is understanding where you sit on the spectrum and making sure your partners understand and respect that. A sexuality can be a very controversial term, both in and outside of the L dbt community, to be seen as having something wrong with us, and it can be hard to find the right partner, either romantically or sexually, because of that fact. But you are valid. Your sexuality is valid. In any attraction you may or may not experience is valid. You're not broken and, like you don't have to try and fix yourself. I said this one nap again, I said it again...

...and I'm say it again. You all valid. Your mom of Paucos and that's on period. My blanket is so cozy. I just go from Costco and it's the best thing in the world. Will literally all gonna just see merely go off topic now. We'll like done. Okay, cool, would done. This is over. Well, I'll move on to blankets. Okay, wait, let's play a rose in the thorn, because what is a rose and a thorn? Have you ever played that? No, now, what was a rose of your day? Like a good thing, and what was a thorn? Like a not so good thing. Talking to you, but you do the thorn first so that you end on a happy note. Huh, that's so doing this thought how we'll get and today, thing after be like, well, also going to say goodbye, but we're also going to end up with that. Yeah, if you want to start, aby, because this was more of your sexuality. Sure, I m well, my thorn was that I was having some memories of maybe one of my worst coming out stories. But my rows of the day was that I watched coreline for the first time. Oh, I'm using we and that was actually, you know, it was pretty good. That's amazing. Did you find it scary? Because I think corline is terrifying, but what I thought it was it wasn't like scary, scary like you would expect a horror movie to be, grow but it's it's very unnerving. Yeah, and a lot of the imagery, definitely, I love corlines imagery. I'm like so tempted to dress up as her for Halloween. Now do it all your hair blue too. I have blue hair dye. Do it be gay, do crime. Okay, Jackson, what was a rope day? Got We do alphabetically? I was going to go plan. Well, slightly relived trauma, which is kind of a thrown definitely not my happy moment, but then I got to talk to you guys, which is always fun and good. Oh Ah, that's so sweet. Shut up. I miss you so much. I miss you two. We'll see each other soon. Yes, yes, I have a big party. Yeah, know where we're going to want to do that. We need to. We got some conversations actually. Yeah, Oh yeah, better half off, better help on the lip. Fam later, quickly. This is going to sound really this vicious to our listeners, but I need to talk to you guys after this. Jackson and moon, Jackson's sus, orange us. Yeah, I dude, if your tones of Mon Oh, yeah, okay, electrical me, me an electrical Um. The Thorn of my day was probably there was some unwanted like drama at school. That really stuck. It was bad, no fun. You'll the only unwanted trauma I want. I said drama, not trauma. I said drama too. Uh Huh, sure, but Ros would probably be Um. So I learned that the composer Bach married his cousin and had seven kids with her. Oh Wow, you're related to one of them. Yep, wow, can see it in your eyes. Oh my God, if I'm a descended a box,...

I don't or if I came from interst. So that was our episode to today. I think today went pretty fluid. So again, make sure to check out on Instagram, on twitter, Patreon, our come below, our website, everything else that you have a need to check us out on. Go find it. Go check it out. It's going to be amazing. please. We have like two followers. I want more for the clout. It's up, but we also enjoy our instagram because that's Shan. Our instagram is. Don't worry about stabbing it out. They can. If you want to hear it again, go to the front of the episode. That when you're done. Okay, guys, thank you so much for listening and our next topic for next week will be no topic. We're just going to do a friendly episode where we just talk about our interest our day and anything else that comes to head. Probably a lot of stuff about knitting we had a little bit on mental health as well. If you have any topics that maybe you want us to touch on, feel free to comment under all video of the author episode, so the episode that has been released last week. Make sure to comment to that one and we can and we'll repost it again and you can tell us any topic ideas that you want us to talk about. But thank you so much for coming to this episode and someone, if you want to finish us off, Um what you're saying about. You don't say anything else. You just got to stay. Goodbye, Gay Du Crime, goodbye. Okay,.

In-Stream Audio Search

NEW

Search across all episodes within this podcast

Episodes (105)