House of Cards: An LGBTQIA2+ Podcast
House of Cards: An LGBTQIA2+ Podcast

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House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast: Aromanticism

ABOUT THIS EPISODE

Today, we talked about how many dice Jaxson has, and on our throughts on school. Avery revealed that she wants to be an english teacher. Our topic was Aromanticism. And Our music was Tranquility- Chill Lofi Hip Hop Beat. Hope to see you next week, but if not, have a good rest of your life.
 

Y'All, welcome to the House of cards and LGBT podcast, where we address the gay agenda. I am a very an I'm one of your host I you see her pronouns, and I finally need finish that sweater I was knitting. You need to show us. Oh my God, she sent it to the group chat. Anyway, Hi, my name is Jack. I will see it pronounce figured out. Just find out, God's not real, because I think I may have accidentally made my hundred dollar into go get caught invalid online. Yeah, that's why. That's what I was so upset about. So I might be calling to go being like K, I fucked up money. Please onto our next post. Oh, hi, I'm Simone. I U S. They pronouns and I have little fun bunes today. They're super cute. Okay, anyways, okay, you can find us on Instagram at House of cards underscore podcast, on twitter at lgbt underscored Dick on Tumbler as its house of cards. Our patreon is house of cards and our website is something I always forget. Our website. Follow our instagramcom yeah, yeah, yeah, our instagram is what we use most. Yeah, just follow her instagram. That's where you'll find everything. So now that we're done promoting, we're going to promote again, but my tone. So we're talking about a room mathicism, which I'm sure you can see because you clicked on the episode, so you know Val. So just a valid on all sega of attraction and that kind of sexuality that attraction falls on. Do Watch a sexuality video? Watch our conception would also be good to watch, but you don't have to. Relationships and attraction. Watch those three episodes and that'll kind of catch you up on our Sega of attraction that we've kind of been going on recently. We have been very attraction focus recently because we are attractive. Lobos, I didn't say attractive US at attraction. Yeah, but where we are attractive, you know it's because once you get stuck on a topic avery, you are stuck in that topic until you're done. Yeah, usually. So this is just avery running. Of course I was a little tired today so I wasn't going to keep going on our like purity streak, but believe me, we're getting back into that soon. Oh God, not again. I don't want to go through purity again. Are You fucking Cuny? I'm actually right now, I'm actually going through my dice to find my favorite one, like picking out the groups and picking out which ones are going to be my favorite dice, Oh and basically picking favorites. Right now, currently trying to curl my bangs with a scruncht. I love that so both mentally, I hope it Fussy. I am coloring on my phone. That's that's that's what. That's what moms do. I have coloring APP and I just knit a sweater. Oh my God, I had two secs that are very similar with the different shades of the same type of green. What the fuck? Wow, you have so many dice. That's why you want to seek. No, I know how many you have. No, you guys haven't seen the reason one, so I'll time my camera. You guys can see this. I'm really sorry, chat, but Oh my God, you're such a Gamer. Oh my fucking God, what the Hell? I need to go like go to like the engine. Anonymous. I literally use the same dice though, every time, because I don't have my favorites planned out. So I'm going to get favorites that I just use most of the time. Oh my goodness,...

I don't like these bright owned ones that look like traffic cones. There is traffic cons but these are of them are kind of cute and I think I want to use them for something at some point. If you have a d one hundred that you don't like, I would be more than happy to take it off your hands like a foldy one hundred wood has one to a hundred, or like the ones that go up by ten. I have no clue. I Oh, I thought it was a do one hundred, like every day to decide if I was good. Yeah, that's a d one hundred. You can just use d tens or a d ten and then a D ten. Okay, this will be the game, know. So fine, I'm going to friends it on for like I'm sure you guys have noticed, postings been a little all over the radic as our editor, me, is getting back in the school and we're going full stering, which means there's a lot of walk after catch up on. So just keep telling you guys at a time there will be a more often chance of me just not being able to post this week. So we're really sorry. We have lives, but we will try to post Wednesday or the day after until with Jackson. Imagine having a life. Do you want to say? Oh God, no, I would screw up so bad. But I meant like how did you delete your entire how did you delete the entire podcast? I don't know. Yeah, I meant like having a life. I I'd literally just read. I go to school, even though I don't have classes until one. I show up at school at nine and I just hang out. That's kind of depressing. For why I like me. I like being at school. Don't even try to say you like being at school. I do. That's what I get stuff done. Taturo vibes. I'm literally going to add into education. Fight me, I will buy yeah, you look like you'd that's a compliment, by the way. I will say it at it's not a tome. No, I was talking with I was talking with my boyfriend about how much of a Milfar old English teacher was. You know, that's a very scruture. We're going to be making fun of Avery in the future, thanks I annyway till. Yeah, Avery Future and formed and you cannot stop it. I like to. I will embrace it. It is. What do you can teach? I want to teach La yeah, that is shaped is that really you? Can you please dress like a stereotypical English teacher? She got. Yeah, I started sex said today in class. I have never actually had a proper sex said. I know, I don't think, like we didn't have any of metal really have it an elementary school and then in and high school classes. So why would you teach sex said? I mean like, yeah, it's not fantastic, but because it's jury taught it. It's a way, because Simon already knew how to do it. Creepy weight. Can I have some volunteers because you're insect at it? And she was like she was very victim blaming with stuff. So, like she didn't talk about consenter anything. I'm so stupid. Wow. Yeah, the only thing that we've really learned at my school was quarter episode of consent in great for we learned about grade four and five we learned about puberty, which was actually...

...not all that much of stuff. Looking back on it, I remember learning about wet dreams but not learning about periods and I was like what the fuck? What? All right, todd that's okay, that's wild. And then middle school we only metast we only really learned about consent and abstinence either. You ask for consent. Are you don't have which? Yeah, I mean, that's fair, very fair. The Catholics might be on to something. No, I wasn't in Haltholic Middle School. That was public. Okay, public. Yeah, I don't give the Catholic that. I haven't had actual any like sex, said education in high school. It's all just healthy relationships. I'm gonna these dice are like pope, a blue with golden numbers, and it looks so magical. Sounds like a galaxy should bring back Alexy. Wait, you said that. told me again. So boy, like you said, I'm like, Oh, baby's a home sexual bottle. You were like, she fruity. Something's a little fruity. Somebody enters up podcast. Something sounds a little fruity. Now that was your mom last night with avery. What. I could see it. It's what, except she's a capricorn of Yourn Aquarius, like that really wouldn't? Oh, everything a sexual to that? Yeah, I'm play straight, not the fin I look for like some moon. Just completely forgot ivery wasn't a sexual. Like no, I could see it. I could see it. Well, let me, I'd have like knitting. I see that for sure, I lo that's your mom. Yeah, I could see that. Yeah, I could see Avery Scot poking with all of our MOM's. My own is Scot. You hang out with my grandma more than with my mom, though. Yeah, I will hit up your grandmothers owns a mum Pos it's one, two, three, four the let see how many. What was your mother? Your Grandma? Good, I'll just give him the hotline that's been harassing me. Very valid extremely valud called the other day from literally it was an eight hundred number, and then this woman on the other end. She started screaming at me. She's like you piece of Shit, you piece of fucking should you really think you're gonna leave me on delivered? Hi? You really think you're gonna leave me on delivered with a baby? You? I'm like, Hey, but I was in the middle of a mouth to or not a mouth? That's like a chemistry quiz. So it's like, okay, by Damn that tea, I want to stayed on the line. What happened, Sweetie, tell me everything. To listen in. I'd like pull up a chair. I was sitting your teacher. Everybody, stop the quiz. I want to see what happen. Yeah, that's going to be me. I should have asked if I could put on speaker and be like, listen, this isn't fucking tea, this is so gumpty. And you have that you're like yelling at who you think is your boyfriend and they just hang up on you. Dude, he's gonna be in like a whole other world, or comes or she or they. I mean like, Oh my God, wait, but what's the most bizarre part about it? Is My brother's my number neighbor. So she very well could have been calling my brother. Oh the Oh my God, don't my God, Hi, you should have gotten her name. I should have fuck. Okay, anyways, Auntie, so hall, topic is a romance. Are Romanticism. We love to be it. Let's get into the topic. I think that's good. I think we've exposed th ourselves enough...

...for today. For today, come back next week. Next week will tell you about like a whole like history. Oh yeah, so this was the day I was born. I remember coming on in the womb showed up. I wish I could remember my birth. I wish. I wish that you didn't. Why do I double dice? That'd be so traumatic. For maybe you stop by. Okay, I have to start. Okay, we previously touched on a romanticism and our asexuality episode, but today, since it is our topic, we're going to be going more in depth. And actually, February sixteen was a romantic pride week, which I did not even know about until I started researching for this episode. So not I'm like absolutely distraught that we missed it. But next year related week. Yeah, next year for still going at this. We will be posting. Oh, we will, because we're too all anxious to say stop. One of us all die before and the podcast will just all too anxious to tell each other that we can't do it anymore. One of us will have to do yeah, that's how I hate is given the podcast as they hunter us down and can left. I could see it. Okay, paragraph. At it's simplest, people who are a romantic, or Arrow for short, they don't develop romantic attractions to other people. However, I just clap my hands on ironically, Holy Shit, how, Oh my God, me and English teacher are men. It has begun. This doesn't mean that a romantics don't have feelings. There are many people who have loving relationships. And form very strong bonds with the people around them, which, actually, that's all explained in our Greek love episode. Yeah, you should go and like yeah, Oh, actually, all attraction. We call it attraction because, yeah, just guys, we still use them today. We just don't call them by those names. We should, though. So while a sexuality is a lack of sexual attraction to in the name, a romanticism is a lack of romantic attraction. They're complementary to each other and make up the ace aero spectrum. And just like how a sexual people can still engage in sexual relationships, a romantic people can still engage in romantic relationships. Just be aware that they may not experience all the same levels of romantic attraction ast someone else. They may not behave in ways that would be typically expected of a romantic relationship, and that's okay. Like, I have a friend who has an a romantic girlfriend and they have the cutest fucking relationship in the world. I'm so happy for them. But continuing on with that, the biggest misconception about a romantics is that they are like incapable of feelings, as they we said, or anti romantic. Not True. Made to break it love and romance is not excused town each other, which we talked about our attraction. Go Watch it. No pause. The pause live, so watch it, come back. You'll miss nothing else. They have been proven through a MIR MRI scans that romantic love is distinctly by a normal chemical standard and hormonal profile, that they're completely different and they are not the same. Romantic love involves intense feeling of intimacy and passion, and that's why the beginning of the romantic relationships, of the honeymoon stages, because that is when the most of that Noro and homeown hormonal love is there. And just to say don't just because, like we're talking about love at home,...

...no chemical area, it is not just a normal chemical area. Don't. Love is more than science can explain. We'll just kind of explaining why a romanticism is real by science levels, because everyone says facts don't how your feelings. Here's the facts, bitch. Facts don't hurt your feeling. I'm going to start saying that. I heard easily. Additionally, all a romantic on psychopath I know it's insane. Is that a conic? Because the psycholy he's saying actually is it's not because insane is a very bad word to a psychopath. Oh yeah, it's a legal term. Yeah, psychopath lack the production of the North Chemical Oxytopan, which I want today. Actually from there. They are incapable of bonding and loving other individuals. A romanticism is a lack of romantic attraction. They can still enter emotional bonds with other individuals, which is something that psychopath struggle with achieving. The psychopath is I should have known. This is an actually outdated Tom don't you shore really antisocial disorder? Ah, he is so for sure. Eighty. Yeah, what's it? So antisocial disorder? I shall know that. I can blink my head, but don't use the word psychopath. It is no longer a valid tone. Cool. So, yeah, this is where the concept of romantic orientation comes into play. This is a really big word that I just learned today and I may butcher it, but I think I've got it down. So I'm mad to normativity. Fuck you think anything. I said Tubty m a Mado normativity. I did it again. Oh my God, you didn't. Ma So normativity, a mat normativity. I am incredible. It's a term. I am a God, I am superior. Bout am a tone normativity. I couldn't say it again. Is the term coined by Arizona State University professor Elizabeth Blake to capture societal assumptions about romance. I'm going to try to say it one more time. A matto normativity. You're literally I'm making it so much worse. We'll put a post about the word and it's definition when we post this. Anyways, I should. I'M gonna have to start putting reminders in my phone. You should. That's a good idea. That's a brilliant idea. That's how I trained myself to eat. So this is assumption that traditional views of romance, which is like monogamy and the suburban dream of you know, you go to school, you got a degree, you get a job, you get a spouse, but how's it going? School? Jest. That's what I'm talking about, the suburban dream. I almost clapped again. Good God, I'm like, you're turning into a Susan. Someone give me a wine glass. Why am I so exuberant today? Wow, caffeine. I never have caffeine. I'm my doctor telling him not always a funny. We have coke. Sometimes, yes, sometimes like that's very rarely, though, and like I can only have yea Cocacola, Jesus, I can. I only ever have like one glass of pop per day. But no,...

...this is all natural. We could you imagine? You, could you imagine, like my doctor says, I it have caffeine. Starts like a huge fucking line of cooking. Are you pope with that stuff? Um, the suburban dream. We're getting sidetracked. The suburban dream. So that's yeah, you is like it can be associated with Heteros normativity. To the suburban dream is like get a spouse, get a house, have kids, get us happy wife, happy life. Yeah, this Um a Mato normativity is the belief, or so no, not believe. It's the assumption that the highest form of satisfaction is having that kind of suburb a life and that all individual strip for this lifestyle. Hm, I feel like it's pulse. And actually, because we are. Do not hate on other women. Elizabeth Blake, she actually came up with this word because she wanted somehow to describe the pressure she felt to prioritize her relationship over her doctorate. Yes, she's a sorry me, literally trying to start up my dies. Okay, Simon you're a quak. Oh, fuck is scrolled past it. That's super sexy. Are Okay, that's really let's go suburban drink. Can also be referred to as the nuclear family, which is like, okay, anyways, cool nuclear family sounds like a Disney channel show. You're right. Am I what you like? You High, you take drugs. I never do drugs, and lets except for my prescribed ones. Will you puck stribe co cocaine, Coccaine, but co Qicking. It's a new drug, just made up of it sounds super exciting. I don't know, I said. Well, moving on. Yeah, go on, sorry or something. What I meant like, my sweater looks super good. Oh, I did good on my biotest. Who Sick? So we're kicking Samona to the PODCAST. Yeah, I get it. It's like, yeah, okay, do you want? No, I'm gonna read it. Okay. So, while a sexuality is a Lek, Oh, I'm on the wrong thing. You just looked for what your names me too. I found it. Hey, we good. Everyone has different conceptions of romantic love and romantic relationships. Just dismantling a METO normativity is the biggest example of that. How did you say that so effortlessly, I'm going to kind of clinching my buttle really hard. Right still, we are taking someonona the podcast soon. Okay, coming from the Latin root, and that too, the word means beloved. That's super okay. anyways, that's cute. Um. This is why a romanticism awareness is important, as it reminds us that, no matter our romantic or sexual orientations, who are, what we choose to love isn't restricted to societal expectations and is undeniably value. Sexy. No, I'm so long for saying that. I think it is my...

...time. Have to edit out that pot what the means stop, just like every other identity we have discussed, we have discussed a lot. That a Roman is and a sexuality is just the beginning. Literally, there were so like we have a lipt like this, this document, it's fifty five pages and one not even halfway down, like who? But you see, Beld in, there are dozens of Toms that I'll consider umbrella tombs that can make you feel better by more pinpointing how you identify yourself. So feel free to do you own research, which is what we promote. We give you the we give you the crumbs, you make the bread actually be better. If we bread is made, we give you sand, you make the same castle we we give you the ingredients, you make the bread. That's better. Remember that it is okay for your preferences and feelings to change, and we found it for today's episode. Guys, now we have my God, I up is. I'm joking. I'm joking. Every did good today. I'm not going to say though. Feel really to change over time. Face is not good. You have valid as fuck, unless you're some mom dude. This is like when we were roasting the hell out about one counselor at Camp. You know exactly who I'm talking about. No, I don't. Actually Avery does, when we made that whole song roasting him and just like made fun of him a lot. We can say Jessica's Jess has been in the podcast. Yes, I don't know if we like the maybe it's okay. Finish. Every old mind is getting to her. She's getting old in her years. Won't make it, won't be alive much longer. Guys that don't have to end a podcast. Imagine that sounds I have. Tell me what we gonna do with like one of US dies memorial episode. So we replace them with someone else, with Jeff, let's be honest. We replace them with Jess Probably, oh my gosh. Oh, we could just relate. Replace someone with us right now. I don't just would be better. Actually, how dare you? SOMELONE is my baby. Thank you, mom. You're just lying because you want someone to feel better. Literally, eat shit, Jackson, I'm gonna get killed and I I did my sleep. Yeah, actually, this is the beginning episode where we are going to wall guys, pick your favorite. Me Becomes dreamless and we make a dreams and feed. But it's only voeble. It's what. Oh, yeah, okay, thank you, guys, for watching. Don't you dare. Don't you dare someone. Get Out, kid and remember you are valid as okay, jaccent, just going on for years. If I you're saying, I don't want to turn your little bit, I'm a little dancing dance act. This is a problem. Anyway. Thank you for watching today's episode. I hope you enjoyed this episode. If not, well, what can we do about it? Hope to see you next week, same time, same place. Slide into the DM's of spotify and Click on our episode. Anything else to add guys both this book. Milk is good white poston anyway. Thanky, love...

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