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House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast
House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast

Episode · 4 months ago

House of Cards: an LGBTQ Podcast: Living to accepting people

ABOUT THIS EPISODE

In this Episode, Avery couldn't make it so me and Simone took the matel. We had some good laughs and talked about our lives and how glitchy simone sounded! Which we stan! This episode was about accepting people! so we hope you learned something! we hope to see you next weeek and your vaild as fuck. 

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Written by Avery Ann

Edited by Jaxson Stiles

Produced by: Jaxson , Avery and Simon

Music: Lofi-Missing memories , lofi fading away, lofi fly and lofi escapi

Welcome to the House of Carts andlgbtq plus podcast. My name is Simona and I you see, they pronounsand I am crocheing. Hi, I'm Jackson. I really need a phonounsand currently everything sucks and I'm gonna kill everyone. No, yeah, don'tdo that, you're too sexy. I've got motor on my mind. Anyway. Where can you find all social media? If you want to follow us onsocial media, because we're amazing, you can find us on Instagram atHouse of cards underscore podcast, on twitter at lgbt underscore deck and on TickTock as house of cards, lgbt. We stand, we stand, westand, we stand, we stand, we sent. How are you today? How are you? I am feeling like Shit. Oh well, soyou're feeling as great as always? You feel normal? Yeah, you feelI'm feel. I'm feeling so single lately. If anyone wants to slide into mytear, okay, left time. Somebody did that. You broke upwith them. Yeah, so, don't even saw with that whole like,yeah, like, it's like it. No, I feel so single today. I shouldn't have broken up with them. You shouldn't have. No, youtold me it was my decision. I asked you fired. What youwere like was you were like just do your own thing. I was like, I wanted advice, like I really want advice. What should I do? And you were like just do your and say no, no, Isaid, listen, I I can grab the receipt, but I was likelisten, I'm going to Suppol you no matter what. I think that theyare a great person and I think you would be. I think this isjust a rough patch, but I also understand what you're coming from, asyou just came out of a relationship. I gave you advice, I giveyou both spectrums and I said, whatever you do, I'll support you.So don't throw that bull I will throw that bullshit today. You don't.Don't say that I didn't help you, when I absolutely did help you,hurt you, and I still support your decision. Why? Because it wasjust it was a decision you decided you needed to make. And that feelsso single. Okay, but that doesn't matter, because would you rather forthe single or trapped both at the same time? Done, babe already,that's just your life. Yeah, pretty much, like can you that sosingle? I just want a girlfriend who like who will like my rocks?I'm sorry, but you can't have both, bestie. What it's one of theother, a girlfriend or the rocks, or the rocks. Oh, Ican't have both. No, okay, so I'm going to show this toSimon, but they you guys, can't see it. I'm just goingto I want you guys to hear someone's reaction. Okay, I'm having troublebreathing today, so my reaction will be very lack luster. Yeah, you'reready. Yeah, Oh my God, literally throw that on me at thestricle of it's about two hundreds. I hate you and I probably have aboutanother hundred or so, or maybe even two hundred in my Wolf Apron.Do you want to be my sugar daddy?...

No, I hate you. I'llfind you a boyfriend. I'm good. Okay, thanks, though. Thenwe talk about God, Oh my God, Sunday was such a date. So, yeah, so, like Im atch a guy on Zunny,like I stopped talking to it, your guy, and snapped out right.Why that guy? You're talking about? That? I'm like, there wassome floating, heavy floating, very peging, non friendly flooding, right, butthat that was kind of just like the fun of it, right,yeah, and as you do yours and what? And then sets. Yeah, I'm bored and I like attention. So it's an explicit photos which withoutconcept is listen, let's listen to what you want. But always that's forconsent. When you go that kind of fall, you know, even likekind of like going back. It's so glitch. It's both side and I'mhoping that the recording fucking it up because I think it'd be hilarious that thisis they could what I'm here and if recording to what I'm parant, thisis what it. He was like, yeah, Oh no, I'm justhaving trouble breathing. I think that's just my voice. No, its likevery computerized, but probably like, Oh my God, watches, I havelike fucking covid knock on wood. Anyway. So like concern the whole thing.Like he didn't even like ask if I want to do he just kindof went into it and I was kind of like a dangerous but an asshole. And then I'm driving to walk that I'm like this was familiar. Andthen and then I got triggered and I was tricked for the fourth two hoursof my work shift. Dude, I fucking hate when that happens. Likeit was an my boss was like are you okay to you and I'm like, I'll be fine a bit, and I was. I was fond eventually, because I my friends say who will comforting and they were all like aBah Bah, but yeah, like boy, and then like he's texting me throughoutbook and of course I don't got my phone. I Walk Because Ilove my job and I don't want to get fired, and like I gethome, I text them like two messages and like k night, and thenI went and then I say, up till when I am I just didn'twant to talk. I did not want to talk to him. I didunderstand that, though. And then, like I haven't gone him assis fromhim back, and I'm kind of happy about it. Yeah, I meanthat reminds me like last night. They're oh, like Oh, he unadded me, that's why, good for him, good for him. Thankfulgirls. Girl. Bosh, Shit, Oh my God, last night therewas like this twenty year old messaging me. So I was fucking with him alittle bit. I kept sending him all these well Awsin stuff and it'sabout that stuff. And he kept like yelling at me and it was hilarious. I loved it. Well, what'll yelling at you about? Well,I kept sending him and him laws, because he may have sent me anunsolicited pep. So I kept fucking with him and I kept sending him likethe laws on that where we live. And he's like what the fuck?You shoot the bit and practicing, and he's like fuck you, and thenI was like, okay, go suck your own Dick, and then hewas like can I see your ass? I was like listen, listen,let's talk with the Segue this guy's head quick, you know, it's like, yes, let me send this without approval first of all. And thenafter she's told you most of the Times that she's probably like indirectly, butso, telling me multiplemes that she's not into it, let me ask.Oh No, diractically, I was directed the saying fuck off. Yeah,after she's told me multiple times she doesn't...

...want to see me more, let'sask them for an aspect. Yeah, like, and also, I amI'm sixteen. Okay, this dude he was like twenty and I told himthat I was sixteen. Yeah, I just Kay Kiddos, listeners to mea bit of a scuff reading today. But Yeah, Oh, yeah,I just men just don't make sense to me. I hate man, butlike most things, we have to accept that exist and talk about acceptance.Let's talk about how to learn, how to accept your loved ones. Wow, what a wonderful unscripted Segue, my guy. It actually all of mysegways are on scripted. I know they are. I just I was like, and they're all amazing. Some of them are horrible. I'm not evengo to lie. Some of them suck ass, just like you, Iknow. I'm sure you ext loved when you ate disass out anyway, sinceyou're always stick in your mouth and mind, sometimes like God and see to appreciationmonths. But today we're going to be talking about acceptance. WHO WELEARN? fucking yeah, we love it, and something that's really important is that. I think we do need talk about this, as I think themedia really impresses that everyone should automatically accept a loved one when they come outand you should validate them and you should support them. But it may notbe immediate when you accept. There may be a bit of a delay,they may be a bit of shock. Yeah, sometimes it may not beexpected. Yeah, and you kind of and this is especially true when thatperson is like a wife, husband, like that's kind of like something likeyou've and such, if you've got kids to like, you've got yeah,thing. And then, let's say they come out as Trans Feminine, TransMass Gay. It's kind of a bit of a shock as you entire lifekind of changes and that can be hard and it can just don't need validatethem and, yeah, them still and make sure to take care of yourselfand accepting them and don't be a bitch and make sure you pay the heterosexualtax. Yes, yes, makes you do that. There is actually,I think this is a fun topic because there's such a line of like theloaning to accept will still being in that safe stone. Will you're not beinghomophobic, transphobic or just queophobic? Yeah, and like it's such a thin linethat it's so hard to tell if, which why I think people think theyhave to automatically accept people, because I think, oh, am Ibeing homophobic, and it's like no, sweetie, it's just that you willput in shock and like a my rantophobic when I spider climbs on me andI jump up in the No, I bug with something on me. I'Mgonna pass. Yeah, there was that shock. Oh my God, thatreminds me of this one time I was camping and I got this huge spiderbite. So maybe my mom were like we drove up the road to Googlewhat different spider bites look like and she thought it was a wolf spider.Which one is that? It's poisonous. That's how you die. Oh didI? Literally I popped it and then I stuck some ice on it andI was good. It was just a pimple. No, it was definitelynot a pimple. It was like using four weeks, like, you know, like Venom and Shit. But it's fine because I'm built different. SUMON'simmune to poison. Yeah, hello, but yeah, I'm anyways accepted.acceptons. You should look you should accept people. That's the episode, thanksto you guys. Yeah, you should accept people, but it can behard. If you don't already know that, this is like people defending like theirfavorite you tubers when they get into...

...a scandal. Were like, whatare what are the things you shouldn't say to some one? Okay, okay, you should definitely not invalidate a person and you should definitely not be like, Oh, sweetie, it's a phase, or literally, literally, your mumTe Literally Your parents to dude, okay, literally, okay, youshould not. You shouldn't be like it's a phase, or like you'll alwaysbe like my little girl or little boy. I hate when I'm gonna see thaton tick tock all the time and I'm like, you know, I'mactually going fucking I can't say that on the Internet. Okay, we allknow what you were going to say. Oh No, you don't. Itwas actually a lot more vulgar. I think I need to take my mids. Probably did I take them to the anyways, anyways, he was sayingaccepting people. How do you do it? Okay, so you you obviously haveto you have to be nice to them and you have to validate whatthey're feeling when they're telling you, because it all it probably took like alot of fucking courage to come out and tell you that. They definitely crybefore they told you, they definitely don't ride, definitely talk to somebody.But forhand Y, there are the other people. Yeah, or they didn't, and you're the force was in. They're telling any and then that's whenyou really have to be good. Yeah, and they definitely googled a bunch ofshit beforehand. Oh, they definitely google them. I gay tests,check thecause. They definitely googled am I gay? And they also definitely googledhow to come out here. Loved warm. Yeah. So be supportive, becauseit's a process to come out and also it's a process to decide tocome out to family members. I feel like that, like definitely. Yeah, like I feel like coming out to friends is kind of standard issue thesedays, but coming out to family sucks because, like they could like whathappens if you come out to your parents and they kick you out? Andthat's a fear and you need to make and that's why people so much triedto get gay people and trying to people on TV. That's why they triedto get them all in the media and allow you and low school to teachabout them so they kids understand them. And so the issue is no longera fear to feel like good to you want to understand. No, youtoo ignorant to understand and you're too dumb and you're too just. That's goingout like literally just like roasting everybody road. Um. No, but honestly,the best cure for hatred is education, because a lot of it comes fromignorance and fear of the unknown. So, like, if you're somebodywho's never met a gay or a transfer buy or another type of queer personbefore you questions, I love at you reference them as if they're like adifferent creature. They are, I am. I am a different creature, thanks. Different creature. Yeah, we're not human. Validate US anyway.No, don't, but that's a totally jokes us. Okay, know,you are human. We're just all build different because we're better than accept them, but accept them, but not yourself. Okay. So, literally, Iforgot we were recording today. Fun Little Quick Story I got, butI get the call and I'm like, Oh shit, we're recording. SoI joined the call Jackson. He's like Hey, baby, let's go offscript today, and I was like, Oh, you've been doing amazing sofar. Thank you. Like all this is the first day not having ascript and just kind of pulling from it, and Simone so far has been doingthat. Like, let's give a cop of hands, like I didn'teven read over what you wrote. By the way, you've been saying allof it, like you've actually saying what I've been trying to say and whatI'm gonna add right here is something that can that I notice is a verydifficult thing to get the used to, is when a loved one has changedpronouns, own name facts. Yeah, and so I really recommend just recitingthem in your head getting used to it. Don't feel bad if you make amistake. Just make sure you correct yourself. And this is something Inoticed and I hate it, and make...

...sure you do this. Do this, don't. If you don't do this, Ull Punch you. Yeah, it'sa great pronouns even if the post is not around, and use theircorrect name when they're not around. Like seriously, I over this with myparents, because I did change my name, yeah, and my mom, she'ssuper good at it. My Dad has a little bit of trouble withit still, but I think the thing that's actually helped the most is makingthem enter my name in their phones as my new name, yeah, andputting it on all the like all the like Netflix accounts and Shit like that, like the Netflix, the Amazon private, all of my names on that stuff, on the family shared shit is Siman now and I feel like that'shelped so much. Yeah, that was like, like it's accepted the seven, not when you feel like it. Yeah, it's acceptance all the timebecause, like, if you're thinking about them and you're like Oh, Dad, name and you can correct yourself and that's how you learn. And onething that I just I want, I really want to talk about this partof accepting people because literally, it happened to me and I fucking hated it. Oh, I don't know if it's that, Chusemon, it's do notout someone if they have come out to you and they've come out everyone else. Do not tell anyone else until they've said it to you. Yeah,that did timing to me. Actually, I'm gonna tell your story. SoI was bisexual, Gay and Great Fun, and I told my friend, likeclosest best friend, who I no long gering best friends with, andI told her. whoe a rush on, right, because we were best friendsat the time. HMM. And so she told someone else, cheeseand ice, and I didn't find out from that Porson. I Oh tobuy it two different people. I hate that so much and you don't knowhow hot breaking it was to hear this and to find out that they hadtold someone. Yeah, and even more than instead of telling vic the motheror their siblings or somebody else that I kind of trusted, they told somebodyI did not trust at all for a reason. That's because of this reason. Yeah, like imagine. And what was even worth is my extras frienddefended this person instead of apologizing, and gas lighted be and set like whenI remember saying it was just too much for me to hold. Shut thefuck up. It's not your thing to hold. Coming out as an importantmoment of someone's life and taking that away from someone is not accepting them.Dude. It's literally like learning somebody Shit is green because their mal nersh okay, you keep that shit to yourself. Yes, it's come on, sorry, I was just thinking about how someone, I'm not gonna gave their names becauseI use that as an example, but yeah, somebody the other daywas like, yeah, my shit is green because I'm it was kind offunny. As much it green, I can't remember what's hope on. Yeah, somebody just like told me the other day like Oh, no, no, that good for them, good for them, right. Yeah, whathappened with you? Be noted. Um, if honestly, looking back, itwasn't that big of a deal because I was in an extremely accepting environmentwhen it did happen, but basically when I was in the best he doesn'tmatter. I know they took your secret and they told other people. Yes, well, technically nothing bad happened, though, so I wasn't put indanger. Doesn't mess being bad happened by me a danger, but it's stillit's still holds. Okay. Yeah, also, so I'm trying to invalidateyourself. You're like, it's not. It's like not step invaliding yourself.It's okay, Bestie gone. Okay. So, basically, in grade seven, I was really into this girl and I just figured out I was butI was bisexual. Hold Up, hold...

...up, why we both bisexual?INGREAS, because I'm still by a sexual bestie. You're just not yet.Not yet know I am. No, anyways, no, I'm a fakeuntil I see hawk. Cool, so me, let's let's continue. Okay. So, basically, I was in I was in grade seven. Ijust figured out I was bisexual and I really like this girl, and that'show I found out. anyways, so I told my best friend at thetime that I really liked her and I was like asking for help to likeask her out or whatever, because like that's great seven drama, you know, like you're like, oh my gosh, I love Spaghetti so much. Likehow do I you? So? Like you fucking call them Spaghetti,right, like a like you call your crusher code name and like middle.Oh Right, oh, use the we use the fourth letter of the name. Oh, I always called them Spaghetti. I don't know why. anyways.So, so I really like this girl and I was calling her spaghettiand I was asking my best friend, who was a bitch. I shehated me. I was asking how to like look at as hero outs havingbest friends. Didn't really like us, I know. So I asked herhave with the religious and that's why I think she didn't like me, becauseI was like more atheist and like gay. I am hot right now anyway.So I asked my best friend how to ask her out, and whatshe did was she went up to this girl and was like Hey, shelikes you, and keep in mind spaghetti had a boyfriend. Worst experience ofmy life. Hey, when they do that, like don't hey, stopit, just fucking stop it. Yeah, like, I mean but this bitchalso did share their entire steam library with me. So it's fine now, it's not. No, I still have it. You have a lowstandards, I get free games. You have a low standards. Shut up. You need a psychological help. But yeah, it's like, like again, accepting people isn't hot, but it can take time and that's okay.Yeah, don't be a fucking Dick about anything. Stop it, stop it, stop it. You have to respect their boundaries, even if you're learninghow to do that. Yeah, like, if you make a mistake, Iapologize and move on. It doesn't need to be made a big dealout of either. Exactly exactly, like if you accidentally use the wrong pronounsfor someone, be like and somebody corrects you, just feel like, Oh, I'm sorry, I meant level and then continue what you were saying.Yeah, that's like completely fine to do and it's not like, yeah,it's a lot better than like making a huge scene about it, because that'sand don't victim blame. Not I will hurt you off. Victim Blame,I will break your heart. I will break your heart or love. Howthat's like a threat. What you's you can I do think I can breakyour heart. How? Oh, I don't know, I'm bored, literallyme, but like a living that's today is episode. We really have nothingelse to add. Again, it can take time to accept people, butjust make sure you validate them, make sure you support them, and that'sreally what they need, and don't take forever. Again, it's not.It's not all about you. It's not about you at all. But no, if it's a loved one, it is something. But, like,their choice isn't about you, like they don't need to change too. Thereout for you, but loring, like...

...accepting them and how long that takes, that is about you. Yeah, that's what I meant. Yeah,like it's yeah, like you still have a pot to play and it's okayto take some time for yourself to just kind of wrap it around your head. Yes, it is still about them, though, and don't forget that.Sis. Yes, but also don't like hurt yourself for it. Butanyway, we hope you enjoyed this episode. We hope you enjoy the topic.I think it's a pretty fun one. Make sure, baswaggy, it's waygay. I love the Gut you, Samone, and I hope see younext week. If we don't, well, have a good rest ofyour life. No, if you never watch our podcast again, I hopethere. That was a great time for you to clitch. Are you?Oh, I hope your life is. Is there anything else to add?Your valid is fuck last your homophobic and because maybe is not here, whichI'm sure you know. We never bought that up today, but she's.Oh, yeah, hope you guys crazy. Avery left US permanently. Yeah,we kill those.

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