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House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast
House of Cards: An LGBT Podcast

Episode · 2 months ago

House of Cards: an LGBTQ Podcast: Living to accepting people

ABOUT THIS EPISODE

In this Episode, Avery couldn't make it so me and Simone took the matel. We had some good laughs and talked about our lives and how glitchy simone sounded! Which we stan! This episode was about accepting people! so we hope you learned something! we hope to see you next weeek and your vaild as fuck. 

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Written by Avery Ann

Edited by Jaxson Stiles

Produced by: Jaxson , Avery and Simon

Music: Lofi-Missing memories , lofi fading away, lofi fly and lofi escapi

Welcome to the House of Carts and lgbtqplus podcast. My name is Simon and I you she they pronounce, and I am CROCIR hi, I'm Jackson. I do ou and currently everything sucks an I mGoin to kill everyone now, yeah, don't do that! You're toosexy I've got motor on my mind and where, where can you find a socialmedia? If you want to follow us on social media because we're amazing, youcan find us on Instagram at House of cards, underscore podcast on twitter atlgbt underscore deck and on take talk as house of cards. LGBT WE STAND, we stand, we stand, we stand,we stand we set. How are you today? How are I am feeling like shit? Oh well, soyou're feeling as great as always, you feel normal yeah. I feel I'm set I'mfeeling so single lately. If anyone wants to slide into my dam okay lasttime, somebody did that you broke up with them yeah. So don't even start with that whole.Like yeah, like it's Lido. No, I feel sosingle today I shouldn't have broken up with them. You shouldn't have! No, you told me it was my decision. I askedyou Ford was you were like what you were like just do your own thing. I waslike. I want an advice like I really want advice. What should I do and youwere like to studios day? No, no, I said, listen, I I can grab the receipts,but I was like listen, I'm going to suppose you no matter what I think thatthey are a great person and I think you would be. I think this is just a roughpatch, but I also understand where you're coming from. As you just cameout of a relationship I gave you advice, I give you both spectrums and I saidwhatever you do I'll support you, so don't throw that, but I will throw thatBush tonight. You don't don't say that I didn't help you when I absolutely didhelp you. I got hurt you and I still support yourdecision. Why? Because it was just it was a decisionyou decided you needed to make, and that feels just so single okay, butthat doesn't matter because would you rather for a single or trapped both at the same time done babe already?That is just your life yeah pretty much like a a so single. I just want agirlfriend who like who will like my rocks, I'm sorry, but you can't have both best, what it's one or the other a girlfriendor the rocks or the rocks. Oh, I can't have both no okay. So I'm going to showthis to Simon, but hey you guys, can't see it I'm justgo. I want you guys to hear Simon's reaction, okay, I'm having trouble breathingtoday, so my reaction will be very lack: Luster,yeah, you're, ready a Oh, my God, literally, throw that on me at thestrict club. It's about two hundred dollars. I hate you and I probably have about anotherhundred or so or maybe even two hundred in my walk Apron. Do you want to be my sugardaddy? No, I hate you...

I'll, find you a boyfriend, I'm good! Okay, thanks! So then we talked about God. Oh my God.Sunday was such a date, so yeah. So like I match a guy on a me like I stoptalking to it, you go and snapped out right, O you that guy you're talking about that andlike there was some floated- heavy floating, very P G on friendly footing right so that that was kind of just like thefun of it right yeah and, as you do your end and then Su yeah, I'm boredand like attention juts in explicit photos which, without concept, I listen,let's listen to what you want, but always ask for consent. When you gothat kind of fall, you knowl e, a like kind of like goingback. It's so glitter on the Bo side and I'm hoping that they were goingpicking it up, because I think it'd be Hilarious, that this is they could.What I'm here, if recording to what I'm point. This is what it he was like:Yeah, Oh, no, I'm just having troublebreathing. I think that's just my voice. No! It was like very computerized, butprobably like. Oh, my God, watches I have like fucking coved knock on wood anyway. So like Consen, the whole thinglike he didn't even like ask if I wanted to he just kind of went into itand I was kind of like Hey tainters but an as hole and then I'm driving to walkthat. I'm like this was familiar and then and then I got triggered and I wastricked for the fourth two hours of my work shift dude I fucking Hay when thathappens like it was, and my boss was like. Are you okay to you and I'm likeI'll, be foin a bit and I was. I was find eventually because of my friendsTut, who were comforting and they were all like he do be Ba ba, but like boyand then like he's texting me throughout folk and of course I don'tcall my phone. I work because I love my job and I don't want to get fired and like I get home, I take one liketwo messages and like Hay Nights. Then I went, and then I say up to when I amI just did want to tell I did not want to talk to him. I did I understand thatthough, and then, like I haven't, gone a message from him back and I'm kind ofhappy about it. Yeah I mean that reminds me like lastnight. They a like. Oh He unadded me. That's why good for him? Oh good forhim. Thank bogers girl, boss, Shit, my God! Last night there was like thistwenty year old messaging me, so I was fucking with him a little bit. I keptsending him all these little, but as and stuff, and it's about that stuffand he kept like yelling at me and it was hilarious. I loved it well wosyelling at you about. Well, I kept sending it him laws because he may havesent me an unsolicited pepe, so I kept fucking with him and I keptsending him like the laws on that where we live and he's like what does Thuckooand practicing and he's like fuck you and then I was like okay go suck your own Dick and then he waslike. Can I see your S, and I was like on listen's talk about the segre thisguy had, for you know it's like yes, some said this without approval. Firstof all, and then after she told me most timesthat she's, probably like indirectly, but still telling me multiplies thatshe's not into it. Let me ask Oh no DEBRAILLE. I was directed these singfuck off yeah after she told me...

...multiplie. She does not want to see me more. Let's ask them for anaspect yeah like and also I am I'm sixteen okay, this dude he was liketwenty, and I told him that I was sixteen yeah. I just K Kato's Listenes, but it was scuffreading today, but yeah I just men, just don't make sense to me. I hate manbut like most scenes, we have to accept that I exist and talk about acceptance,we'll talk about how to learn how to accept your love ones, wow, what awonderful unscripted Segue, my guy it actually all of my sedges all inscripted. I know they are, I just isle and they all amazing. Some of them are horrible. I'm not evengoing to lie some of them suck ass. Just like you, I know I'm sure you actually loved when you WaDisese Anyway, since you're always stick in your mouth and mind, sometimeslike God, as sete appreciation, months par. But today we're going to be talkingabout acceptance O we live fucking yeah, we love it and something. That's reallyimportant is that I think we do any talk about it, as I think the mediareally presses that everyone should automatically accept the love one whenthey come out and you should validate them and you to support them. But itmay not be immediate. When you accept that there may be a bit of a delay,they may be a bit of shock yeah. Sometimes it may not be expected. Yeahand you kind of- and this is especially true when that person is like a wife orhusband, like that's kind of like something like you, any switch. Ifyou've had kids to like you do a thing and then let's say they come out astransfinite trans mass gay, it's kind of a bit of a shock as your entire lifekind of changes, and that can be hard and I can just don't e validate themand you o them still and make sure to take care of yourself and accept themand don't be a bitch and make sure you pay the heterosexual tax. Yes, yes,make you do that there is. Actually. I think this is a fun topic, becausethere's such a line of like larning, to accept well so being inthat safe on, where you're not being homophobic, transpolar, well, justChioppi yeah and like it's such a thin line that itso hard to tell if which why I think people think they have to automaticallyaccept people because they'll think, oh in my being homophobic and it's like nosweetie, it's just that you will put in chalk and like in my Rantipole when Ispide climbs on me and I jump up in the No. I S A bug with some on me, I'm Gointo pay yeah there was that shock. Oh my God! That reminds me of this one time.I was camping and I got this huge spider bite. So me and my mom were likewe drove up the road to Google, what difference fighter bites look like andshe thought it was a wolf spider, which one is that it's poisonous. That's how you die! Oh, and I literallyI popped it, and then I stuck some ice on it and I was good. It was just a pimple. No definitely nota pimple. It was like using for weeks like you know, like Venemons ship, butit's fine, because I'm built different, so moans immune to poison, yeah, hello,but yeah. I'm anyways accepted Septon you. So you should accept people.That's the episode, thanks to you guys, yeah. You should accept people, but itcan be hard if you don't already know that this is like people defending liketheir figure, you tubers when they get...

...into a scandal. I like what are all? What is the thingsyou shouldn't say: someone? Okay, okay, you should definitely not invalidate aperson and you should definitely not be like oh sweetie, it's a phase, orliterally literally your monkey. Literally your parents. Are you right? Dude, okay, literally okay, you shouldnot you shouldn't be like it's a phase or like you'll, always be like mylittle girl or little boy. I hate when I ea see that on tick tockall the time and I'm like you, I'm actually gonna fucking. I can't say that on the Internet, okay, we all know what you were going to say:Oh No, you don't. It was actually a lot more vulgar. I think I need to take mynites. Probably did I take them to day anyways anyways.He was saying accepting people. How do you do it? Okay, so you you obviouslyhave to you have to be nice to them, and you have to validate what they'refeeling when they're telling you, because it all. It probably took like alot of fucking courage to come out and tell you that they definitely criedbefore they told you. They definitely e R. definitely talk to somebody forehand.There are no the other people yeah or they didn't, and you ere the force wasthere telling any and then that's when you really have to be good yeah andthey definitely googled a bunch of shit beforehand. Oh they definitely Google,the my gay test check. They definitely googled Ami and they also definitelygoogled how to come out to her loved ones. Yeah so be supportive, becauseit's a process to come out and also it's a process to decide to come out tofamily members. I feel like that, like differently. All Yeah, like I feel likecoming out to friends, is kind of standard issue these days, but comingup to family sucks because like they could like what happens. If you come upto your parents and they kick you out and that's a fear, and you need to makeU and that's why people so much try to get gay people and Transpon TV, that'swhere they try to get them or in the media and allow you and low school toteach about them so that kinds understand them, and so that that issueis no longer fear to feel like Yo to Yo an to understand no you're too ignorantto understand and you're too dumb, and you too, just that's going on is likehow, literally just like roasting everybody rot. No, but honestly, the best cure forhatred is education, because a lot of it comes from ignorance and fear of theunknown so like if you're somebody who's, never met a gay or a trans orbuy or another type of queer person before the Eustons. I love youreference them as, if they're like a different creature, they are. I am, I am a differentcreature thing: Ere uture yeah we're not a human ne validate US anyway. No,don't that's a Te Yokes Kay. Now you are human, we're just all builddifferent because we're better than everybody excite them accept them, but notyourself. Okay, so literally I forgot what were recording today, Fun LittleQuick Story. I got the I get the call and I'm like Oh shit, we're recording,so I joined the call Jackson he's like Hey Bab. Let's go off script today andI was like you've been doing amazing so far. Thank you like all. This is afirst tay not having a script and just kind of pulling from it and somone sofar has been doing it like. Let's live a coupons like I didn't even read overwhat you wrote by the way you've been saying, all of it like you've, a sayingwhat I've been trying to say and what I'm going to ad right here is somethingthat can that I notice is a very difficult thing to get the used to iswhen a love, one has changed: Pronouns or name facts yeah, and so I reallyrecommend just reciting them in your head. Getting used to it, don't feelbad if you make a mistake, just make sure you correct yourself, and this issomething I notice and I hate it and...

...make sure you you do this. Do this?Don't if you don't do this I'll punch you yeah et Pronos, even if the postesare around and use their correct name when they're not around like seriously.I took over this with my parents, because I did change my name yea and mymom she's super good at it. My Dad has a little bit of trouble with it still,but I think the thing that's actually helped the most is making them enter myname in their phones. As my new name yeah and putting it on all the like,all the like Netflix accounts and Shit like that, like the Netflix, the AmazonPrie, all of my names on that stuff on the family, shared shit is somone nowand I feel like that's helped so much yeah. That was like, like it's acceptedthe twenty seven, not when you feel like, I yeah. It's acceptance all thetime because, like if you're thinking about them, you're like Oh dead name,and you can correct yourself and that's how you learn, and one thing that I just I want. Ireally want to talk about this part of accepting people, because literally ithappened to me and I fucking hated it. I don't know if it's actus mount, it'sdo not out someone if they have come out to you and theytell him, but everyone else do not tell anyone else until they've said it toyeah. That did I to me. Actually, I'm going to tell you so so I was by sexual, Gay and Great Tom, and I told my friend my closest bestfriend, who I no longer best friends with, and I told her who I had a crush on roadbecause be best friends at the time M, and so she told someone else she's nice and I didn't find out fromthat person. I it to different people. I hate thatso much and you don't know how hot breaking itwas to hear this and to find out that they have toldsomeone yeah and even more than instead of telling hit the mother or theirsiblings or somebody else that I kind of trusted. They told somebody. I didnot trust at all. For a reason. That's because of this reason yeah, like imagine, and what was even was, ismy exposed, defended this person instead of apologizing and gas, fited,be and said like when I remember her saying it was just too much for me tohold shut the fuck up. It's not your thingto hold coming out is an important moment of someone's life and takingthat away from someone is not accepting them dude. It's literally like learningsomebody shit is green because they're mail Nerico you keep that shit toyourself. Yes, it's come on sorry. I was just thinking about howsomeone I'm not going to gave their names, because I use that as an examplebut yeah somebody, the other day was like yeah. My Shit is green because I it was kind of funny as much. I can'tremember, let's hope, on yeah somebody just like told me the other day like onno, no an good for them good for them right yeah. What happened with you being noted, I honestly looking back it wasn't that abig of a deal, because I was in an extremely accepting environment when itdid happen, but basically, when I was at best tea doesn't matter. I know theytook your secret and they told other people. Yes well. Technically. Nothingbad happened, though, so I wasn't put in danger. Doesn't that something badhappened by me? A danger, but it still it's still hards. Okay, yeah also, soI'm trying to invalidate yourself like it's, not it's like not Thasianyourself. It's okay, best go okay. So, basically in grade seven, I was reallyinto this girl and I just figured out I was, but I was bysexual hold up holdout. Why were we both bisexual ince,...

I'm still by sexual best y? Your? Not yet not yet? No, I am no way. No! I'm a Fagin till.I see a hawk Ol. So me, let's, let's continue okay, sobasically I was in. I was in grade seven and I just figured out. I wasbisexual and I really liked this girl and that's how I found out anyways. SoI told my best friend at the time that I really liked her and I was likeasking for help to like ask crowd or whatever, because, like that's greatseven drama, you know like you're like Oh my gosh, I love Spaghetti so muchlike how do I you know, like you, fucking call themspaghetti right, like a like. You Call Your crusher codename and like middle. Oh right, O use the we use the force letter of the name.Oh, I always called them Spaghetti. I don't know why anyway, so so I reallylike this girl and I was calling her spaghetti and I was asking my bestfriend who was a bitch. She hated me. I was a long at how to like look atastral having best friends didn't really like us. I know it avillion andthat's why I think you didn't like me, because I was like more atheists andlike gay. I Hate Im how right now anyway, so I asked my best friend howto ask her out and what she did was she went up to this girl and was like hey.She likes you and keep in mind. Spaghetti had a boyfriend at the time worst experience in my life, Hey when they do that, like don't stopit just fucking, stop it yeah like I mean, but this bish also did sharetheir entire steam library with me. So it's fine! No, it's not! No! I stillhave it. You have a low standards. I get free games. You have lowstandards shut up. You need PSYCHOLOGIA help but yeah. It's like like again accepting people isn't hard,but it can take time and that's. Okay, yeah, don't be a fucking, Dick Bout,anything stop it! Stop it drop it. You have to respect theirboundaries, even if you're learning how to do that. Yeah like if you make amistake, apologize and move on it, doesn't need to be made a big deal outof either exactly exactly like. If youaccidentally used the wrong pronouns for someone be like, and somebody crickyou just feel like. Oh I'm sorry, I meant Lolla and then continue what youwere saying: yeah, that's like completely fine to do, and it's notlike yeah, it's a lot better than like making a huge scene about it, becausethat's and don't victim, blame God. I will hurt you on victim plain. I willbreak your heart. I will break your heart. I love how that's like a threat. What you can. I do think I can break your heart. How,oh I don't know! I'm bored literally me lie that's Today's episode. We really have nothing else to addagain. It can take time to accept people, but just make sure you validatethem makes you support them and that's really what they need and don't takeforever again. It's not it's not all about you, it's not about you at all, but no, if it's a loved when it is somethingabout like the choice isn't about you like they don't need to change to theirfor you,...

...but long like accepting them and howlong that takes that is about you, yeah, that's what I meant yeah like it's yeah,like you, still have a pot to play, and it's okay to take some time foryourself to just kind of wrap it round your head. Yes, it is still about them, though,and don't forget that SIS yes, but also don't like hurt yourself for it andanyway we hope you dries at certain. We hope you try the topic. I think it's apretty fun one make sure as waggity. I love the Grechi Simon and I hope seeyou next week. If we don't well have a good rest of your life. Now, if you never watch our podcastagain, I hope the rock. That was a great time for you to clincha you. I hope your life is. Is there anything else to add yourvalides fuck last your homophobic and because Abe is not here, which I'msure you've not we never brought that up today, but she, Oh yeah, no hope youguys great. Every left US permanently yeah. We killed those.

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