House of Cards: An LGBTQIA2+ Podcast
House of Cards: An LGBTQIA2+ Podcast

Episode · 1 year ago

House of Cards: an LGBTQ Podcast: Abortion

ABOUT THIS EPISODE

Today! Avery could not make it, and as such the chaotic duo was Simone and Jaxson were forced to lead the epsiode. They insulted each other, comforted each other and had alot of laughs. They then talked about abortions! The myth and facts, the procedures and after care of it all! Make sure to tune in to get some information about it and tune in next week for a new epsiode! and remember that you are vaild as fuck. 

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Written by Avery Ann

Edited by Jaxson Stiles

Produced by: Jaxson , Avery and Simon


Music: Lofi-Missing memories , lofi fading away, lofi fly and lofi escapi

Hello, welcome to the House of cards and LGBT podcast. I am one of your hosts and mown and I used she they pronouns. Hi, I am your, technically for today's episode, cohost Jackson. I use he them pronouns, and it was not here. We bring just here. Everyone's missed an episode now, Yay. We literally me and avery were like talking about this last episode, like, Oh, every's the only one who's never like missed an episode and it would be so weird with just me and Jackson. I don't think it would be. I think it's going to be like. I think it's literally just normal. I think it's just gonna be like I think about like so topic day is abortion, and I think that's going to be the best topic for me and you. Why? Because I think we'll get our just like a reason. We were scientific, but we're going to make it funny. How was abortion? You eat the fetus. Ye, Tis the fetus. You Munch, munch bunch. Oh No, I need to take my medication. That's actually part of the topic. To say promotion. Alright, if you want to follow us on social media, because we make interesting posts, you can find us on Instagram at House of cards underscore podcast, on twitter at lgbt underscore deck and on Tick Tock as house of cards podcast. We have three ticktocks posted. They're amazing. Check them out. You're wrong. Huh, House of cards lgbt, it's our tick tock. See. anyways, that's a not a loop. Because of it, there is all the house of God's podcast or something. All right, we really need to find a social media handle that's all the same for everything. Well, we can, and it works. It's good to be. It's all house of cards LGBT. You're bound to find us. Yeah, pretty much, and hopefully you know what the podcast is, because you know it's on spotify or apple music. No, anyway, what it is. It is don't but yeah, I was so I'm part of a minecrafts over. You know that. I would like to join, which reminds me. I need to message that person. And literally all day while I've been doing house...

...of cods book, I've just been like afk on it, just like fucking grinding and getting them leveled. I just I love it. It's been great for me. If we said have a fun podcast to those I said no, no, we won't know, we won't. Someone tell me. How is your life been recently? Amazing. How about you? You can hear the denial in your voice. Sweedie leave. Um, okay, so abortion. No tells about it. You must literally everything else about yourself. Now what Else House book going? I don't have a job. What you doing? That job? I was working for my dad, but it sucks. No, but you have like that other job? Will you used to you know, to live, a delive a food? Oh yes, Um, I'm signed up for three shifts next week. It's great. Love it. How long on the shifts? Five hours or for hours? I need to do four hours a week to get gas money. Well, that's pretty good timing, pretty good timing. What's these your life going? This is this is not fun. Shit, Jackson, the boring. Shit's a small talk. Fuck. Actually, man's going well, I just I recently. I'm pretty much killed. I have a bit of the again. The past two days have been the aftermath of a cold. So which one like? It's like what? Every once in a while you've settling, can't breathe because you're no stuffs up and then it ends. You know, it's like that. Maybe well, you're no longer infectious, you're just kind of riding the wave. Yeah, you did not get me sick, luckily. Yeah, because I know I want to go to sick because literally most of the time we were wearing math, though we did really shared, really shared drinks. Sure, yeah, I know I wouldn't get you sick because I'm pretty sure the cold was an affection. It was a environmental cold. I also just don't get sick. So, for those wondering why I didn't get coachest for it, is it because the cold was entirely because of my environment, not because of it just suddenly happening? I was in BC, which is currently on fire as always, and I was also going into a pool constantly. I was also in heat constantly and every once while going to a freezing cold tray. Law. I mean you could argue that, like covid is also caused by environment, because we, like you, know where we are in the world. They're handling things stupidly. anyways, it's not environmental because the illness...

...does not come from environmental issues. I wonder if it does anyways. Oh No, no, it doesn't. This is now a conspiracy podcast. No, some prom some we could make a conspiracy branch abouse of cards. It's just like someone's just thinking conspists. I'm like, Sweedie, this is the mean of like, yeah, I've connected it off, you haven't connected. I connected that. It literally is. Oh my God, I love. Why is the minecraft music so loud? I have it open in one of my times. So that's why I've muted. If I've ever on Minecraft, the Bestie best, I'm not muting it, I just closed it. I'm not adjusting my sound settings. They're immaculate. No, no, yes, yes, they are, bestie. God, perish, it's brutal out here. Just just perish. No, you're so mean to me. Okay, speaking of perishing, what did you go parashue? No, No, speaking of perishing, abortions, though, that's not how we do it. No, Sweetie, sweetie, you suck at this. I know. I do think, like, why are you here? So okay, because if you so, a few updates. So someone comes to an end. We're going to try and get the podcast a little bit more organized. Awesome. A vacation is ending. It's back to walk. So some a vacation. It's end. Actually a few of the things I should stum but it's almost my post thing. So that's something tool also. So we'll have a schedule now for posting on things. I've made it. We will follow it. I will try. You will, because you'll get a reminder from to me. I plan to check this calendar, like I'm going to. I'm gonna plan into are you good? I'm going to print it off, dude. Oh my God, well, I'll put it on my calendar. Whatever. Why don't you print it off and put it on a wall, because I don't know. Printer starting Nexta could not. Technically this will already be so, as you may have seen already, we have a schedule. Monday we'll post...

...on tweeter and ticktock. Wednesday is, of course, the PODCAST, is release episode and our Instagram, and then Friday will be instagram ticktock again. So that means for us four days of a week will be House of card orientated because we have to record these. It does not take that long. No, like on make an instagram post. You know what I mean it? No, I think tick tock in the Scrimmin so the easiest is twitter. Literally, if you look at it, if you look at on tweets, on Tweetos, so like it takes us five seconds to tweet them. Our twitter is such trash, dude, as it should be, because that replace it odd, that record as a hell whole. Yeah, instagrams a bit more because you have to make pictures, and tick tock is a bit hot because you have to think of something to do for video. Ro Take tocks are so easy. You just do whatever sound is trending and the La's why. I don't know if you notice, but that's why I have I have you doing most of the tick tocks. Yeah, well, that's because they're just they're easy. I Meek, I made it so it's even funnier as I don't I'm actually and going to end up not posting too much on social media anymore, just because once a week I take up the postion of the episode as well as editing. Yes, so you guys have to pick up my slack, you know. So we would like to, as it is about mid August right now. So as we about mid August, this does mean a free is going to university zoo. Now the rest, me and Simona are going to high school. Simona's online, so like should be a bit easier. I will be physical, which because my school kind afford online so you'll probably see a lot more of Simon posting when me and avery are busy with school. Don't underestimate my powers of getting extremely overwhelmed. I so August we're going to try to hit it strong and hard. It's Tembo. We may follow a bit, but I'm hoping by October, just October, November, December, to go strong again, because by then we should be into our new schedules. So that's just a heads up about what's going to come. So if you want to have house of cards more often, please look at twitter, look at our tick Tock, look at our instagram and you will see a lot more of us. They are a lot more interaction. We can't interact with you along in the podcast because it is recorded to weeks in advanced, but on twitter, ticktock, intaguent, we can interact with you way more than we normally can. Also, I will just subtly respond to them. A little hint. I'm a little thought, a little debasion. Is a possible house of called calendar. Oh boy, maybe,...

...which will? It will be made by me, don't voice mole, but that's a thought process. So if you do like it, you know tell us you like it tweeted us. Tweet at US at LGBT. Underscore deck. It son't underscore there, I swear to God, is not. Yes, there is brow. I literally made it. There is. There is. Yeah, also thought, well, I'm not ugly. So that's what you think. Yeah, well, the problem is I'm better than you. Let's you think. You know what we can do. Yeah, we could do like those spaces on twitter. We can like do those everyone's in a while. Oh yeah, we could, just when you're bored and just want to talk. So maybe we'll do those sixty times. Able do like a biweekly twitter meet? Oh my God, we could also do that. INSTAGRAM lives and instagram. Well, those, you know, those are cry of faces and not always in the mood for a face. God, but I was thinking. I was just like, Oh, if we ought to, it wouldn't be like a mandatory thing, but just like a fun thing to do. That's when you think. What that tell us? What you think about US doing like every once in a while, just chilling out and like, you know, this is yes, just that's just our content update. Speaking about content, let's get into the content of today's episode, which, if you don't know, is abortions. We're going to start off with the person you had, ten Samon I. Well, okay, abortions are controversial thing in our society, even though it literally shouldn't be, because we should have access to do shit with our own body, bodily autonomy. I agree. You nottterally wrote that, my guy. Yeah, I course you agree. No, you, you need to not take away the magic. I need to not ruin the magic. Come on, I know, but that's funny. The Mass, the magic of Disney. I also forgot I wrote it, so shut up. The magic of Disney. Anyway, keep going. Okay, so today we're here to tell you about the facts about abortion. Jackson spelled here wrong. I would just like to point that out. I literally shut, literally shut the fuck up. It's gonna kill me. Guys, I'll just kick you out of a podcast. Yeah, okay, Oh my God, is my stroll not working? Oh, all the podcast ass and watch you, guys. Shamble boy, I actually can't school. Hello. All right, let's start off with the sect, or with...

...what exactly abortion? Are you? Okay? and will a cruel way of saying it is a forced eviction, and abortion is when it is decided to terminate a pregnancy. Normally I like to say end, just because I feel like terminated makes it some bias, you know, bro Literally like the Terminator, like that's so cool. Okay, yeah, but it could make somebodyle think like killing child. Oh my God, okay, you just like stop being pregnant. That's yeah, they just like stab you Jesus. Okay, now that they don't your podcast. Really happens in abortion rooms? Oh my God, that's how happened. Two abortions. We're just throw you down the stairs. Normally this occurs before twenty eight, before twenty eight week period, which is the third timemester, and most abortions have to happen in the first timester. I want to say that I spell trymester wrong. I don't know how I spell it. It's like try miss trying to minished trime minister, basically where you put the eye on the end. That's where you did it wrong. It would just be an E. I think you're wrong. Anyway, I'm right. Okay. The reason abortion happens before this period is because after the fetus is now completely formed, and many argue this is when a fetus becomes more conscious. It's probably wrong, but whatever. An abortion. That happens after this period. I hate to say, but this that is around the time when babies begin to dream. Fetus is begin to dream in the mother. They're literally not breathing. Okay, anyways, a portion that happen. No, this is Ay, I'm when they begin to fake breathe, like when they begin to breathe in the body as well. Okay. Well, so, though, trimester is around the time when I'm a little like, yeah, you're right, there's a possibility the feet is can be considered a conscious being. I personally don't think so. Yeah, that's everyone's is free to the choice about when they believe as this is considered the because it is such a count it is such a controversial topic of yeah, if he is allowed to be considered because actually it's living, but is it conscious is? Can we consider the same? Yeah, but chicken. I mean, here's my rule of thumb. I feel like it would be really up to the person who is pregnant, and I feel like a lot of people, if they've carried a baby for that long, like until the third trimester, probably wouldn't want to get rid of it. I actually said that. Yeah, the most any abortion that happen, happens after is due to probably the mother is gonna die if she gives both. I yeah, I have...

...a seconds later, but so you probably don't even need to say it. But yeah, yeah, I don't. It's that it's not safety thing, because if you hold it for twenty eight weeks, you pretty confirm that you're going to have the baby. Yeah, but it could happen that suddenly you've been told if you have it you're going to die, and it is valid. Whatever reason. It is valid if you would want to do that. HMM. It's also vout if you don't want to do that. Yeah, it's about as fun your valid is. Fuck, I just took over. Sorry to get that baby or get rid of that baby. Get I'll get rid of that baby. We don't care, as long as you're happy. Sins. Yeah, OK, yeah, bitch. Now, if you want to get rid of that baby, there are two main ways that can happen, the medication way or the kindical way. So started off with the medication way. You're basically you take a pill, you cake Cho feels actually. So you take a pill and these pills will cause the uters to expel the pregnancy tissues, which would be similar to an only miscarriage, though it's very important, is the longer you wait to take the pill, the less likely it is to walk, because you know at that point, like the longer you wait, the moment of fetus grows and the hotter it is the body and the Mohmones in your body in the hotter is for your body to you know, outweigh thatcause how how pregnancies work, and trust me, and how this works is all home on basic. Literally the man on the podcast but like go off. No, it's because I got a hundred sent the reproduction. I know, I just am apparently really good at knowing how it works, but it's all home on base. There's hormones that tell the body to keep the body pregnant and it's hard to kind of, after the weeks come on, to tell the body to no longer do that because you know there could be like, let's say you miss a few hormones, suddenly the body's doing it again. Yeah, but that doesn't mean that it's actually a low weight. So the sun in an eight weeks or less, it's about a ninety four hundred and ninety eight syss rate. And with ten to eleven weeks, it's about an eighty seven, which, honestly, isn't that line like? It's not that low? Isn't that like the efficacy of condoms? Yeah, I think so. Yeah, I think it's better. Actually, yeah, I think it's eighty four four condoms. But we say, but if you do take a second dose, which, Talk to you Dr don't just take one, talk to you doctor. It can raise that two hundred and ninety eight at ten to eleven weeks. If you would like to gain these pills, you need to go to a health center. They'll give you two pills and you take them two days apart the Bush and will call roughly twenty four hours after the second pill. Make sure it to talk to your doctor to get the full thing. This is a brief understanding. It's not the simple. It is not the simple. What's is definitely not that simple. But you can always talk to your doctor about the stuff. Yeah, your doctor will always be there to help you and if they're not, find a...

...better doctor. Come on, facts, do better. Do Better. I don't. Second way of getting an abortion is what a hole. This is where a doctor or nurse will use a medical instrument and gentle suction to remove the pregnancy from the uterus. This method works ninety nine percent of the time because you're basically just physically removing the pregnancy from the uterus. Yeah, the only way it wouldn't work if you forget a single cell, and that sounds like you think you could stop me. You think you can still it's begins to recreate itself. Honestly, at that point I feel like the the fetus deserves to become out. At that point that baby is like yeah, all right, okay, and basically that's ninety nine percent of the time it works, and it's basically whenever it be abortion takes place. There is a limit to when this method can be done. The procedure takes roughly ten minutes, but a full appointment will take a few hours. Later in pregnancy and abortion is taken, the longer the visit may take, so please be aware of that. Also, you can't drive after getting a mestical portion. Just another reason why I didn't put in there. Forgot to that. Why doesn't limit? It's because eventually the baby can get too big and it will be more like you're giving you're gonna give both to the baby. At some point you're just gonna have to give both this and yeah, you can't. You can't sunction out a full, full little baby. They're not that big. They not. It's not. The section is not. Can you imagine if it was that big, that it's come out with this giant to just stick it the help? That is image for sure. So, after an abortion you should be given a care and after care instructions, a plan, fits to a written list, something. If not asked for it, they don't give it to you. Soothe. Yeah, advocate for yourself. Yeah, for yourself, because sometimes doctor don't like to listen. Hopefully they will make sure to rest afterwards. It will be stressful on your body, you are even if it was a like a week or so after you found out, your body still can be stressful because that's a sudden termination of a pregnancy. Your body may not have been prepared for that. Yeah, and you just need to take time for yourself. Like someone said, you can't drive after a clinical yeah, mainly that is because they do give you medications to sort of sedate you, especially with not not fully. Yeah, I don't think they do it fully. Not Fully, say you, but to ease your mind? Yeah, but just take the day to do nothing but really eat, relax, poop, shit, all that Shit. The next day you can...

...normally return to norm activity, but if you find yourself to be still exhausted, to feel yourself in pain, feel free to take an extra day off. Just make sure you go back to your normal activities at don't link take a whole month off, because by then you should see a doctor, but enough to get your body back to not overlook your body and avoid hard worker exercise for the like that can. Don't do that for like two weeks. You give you a time, give your body some time. You it is recommended to use. You literally can't use tampones after an abortion, my guy, you can. For some it's not recommended. You use pads. You use pads. Sorry, use pads the beginning, but it is okay to use other phone in products if you find yourself wanting to. Probably don't do it the force day because that's when a lot of it's going to be coming out. It's going to be chunky. Your tampone won't help with that. But do what makes you feel comfortable and talk with your doctor again. We're not going to you what to use. Your doctors and and tell you what to use. You get to make that fine decision, but make sure to talk to a professional. Yes, and that's the thing needed as a call. It most likely work. Yeah, it will. Probably you will. Most there was like a ninety nine percent. Twenty would bleed. I don't think that's an actual thing or I don't think that's an actual statistics. That's a Jackson statistic, but it is very likely. It's actually it's an if you don't bleed after the paill at least you should go to a doctor. So you should bleed. It's after the pill, for sure. I'm not sure. But the clinical because they're kind of just taking everything out. So with the clinically as well. Yeah, you know it's have some prepared and be prepared that you might bleed, but you should be fine after a few days. But the bleeding may last a week for clinical, but it will most likely last for several weeks for the pill abortions. I'm not show I honestly don't know why, but that's what they say. So cramping May of course. You may want to grab some what someone said is metal. I just said Ad Bill because that's what all, might all, I just said, I put ad bill just because that is what my family uses. So brow might all, is specifically meant for you to in pain. It makes sure to do your own research and what you think is best for you, so that you should use this me. Make sure to do what's best for you. He's these are recommendations. Might all, is just really strong and...

I revemmend it. You may also suffer some mental issues after, such as guilt, red, wrong, and just know all of that is about as fuck. Whatever decision you made is valid and do not let other people take you down long term. Serious myth issues after abortion are very rare, so you should not need to worry about that. If you have one, there may be something else underlining in that and you should see you professional. All right. As a reminder, all abortions are safe as long as they are performed by doctors. Yes, do not. Don't like if you push them down the stairs to get rid of the abortion. That is not considered safe. And don't try and give one to yourself either. That's not a no. That's just gonna end with somebody dying. It can leave to infection. Well, it could lead to you also dying. As well as you feel. So it's it's kind up to you. That's like a not really a win, but like, if you really want to consider that a wind, go ahead. It's not a win, my guy. Well, the ways. Let them do what they want to do. Okay, yeah, all right, one and four uter soldiers will have an abortion before there are forty five. There are some risks we want you to be aware of. For clinical abortion, you should be aware that it may fail. The pregnant the sale in the pregnancy does not end. Some pregnancy tissue may be left in your uterus. Blood pots may occur in your uterus, very heavy bleeding, infections may occur, injury to your I know, I know, I was making dinner when I put in. No Sovix to your cervix or any other organ may also occur. And in allergic medication, you may have an allergic reaction to the medication. Yes, okay, so if I was writing dinner as as writing this, hot I was making dinners. Are In this box. So it was more of a right, right, right, get up, check food, right, where, right, get it, check food. So any spellings and causing, I'll help about them. All good. Go to your doctor. Of heavy bleeding causing to soak two pads, and I'm sorry if, if heavy bleeding causes you to had so fully, so good blood. I feel like if that happened to everyone, you might want to like at any moment, you should want to check a doctor. I don't know if that's but I feel like if you soaked to PA, I feel like Tuo pads in an hour is a lot. I feel like that's too much. I know some people that happens to and that's no more, which is again, is why your check with your doctor. Look what you do any of this, because it could be normal for you. Yes, everybody's different and everybody's beautiful penis. Oh and you should also go to a doctor if really bad pain that medication does not help, or if you have a fear of fever of a hundred and four, hundred point four or higher, which you should do anyway. And that's in fat high. That's fair nheight. So like what like fifty degree Celsius? No, that's like that's...

...like full. Maybe not fifty. Let's check. I thought it would be like not that high. Is it? It's thirty seven actually. Okay, all right. So or for the abortion pills. Some risks are the pill not working, tissue left in your uterus, blood clods in your uterus, bleeding too much or too long, infection or an allergic reaction. See a doctor if no bleeding within twenty four hours of taking the second medication occurs, if you have heavy bleeding that soaks more than two pads within an hour, past large plots for more than two hours, have belly pain or cramps that don't get better with pain medication, or have a fever of a hundred point four or have weakness, nausea, vomiting and or diarrhea. The last marking twenty four hours after the pill. So yeah, it's and again, just as a reminder, this is very like adding that's happening. is around. It isn't like. This, isn't this is like I don't know the exact statistic, but it's not a high one. Abortions are safe and they are not dangerous, but we just want you to be aware that it's like tables on it. Yeah, it's like a risk. Like it like, okay, so if you take time and old, technically your liver could fail, but it's probably not going to happen. No, very few people. Yeah, yeah, so just remember that it is your choice. If you won't have an abortion, well, some countries and state I'm trying to ban this. If you need one, please seek a place that you can safely, safely playfully. No basements, no alleyways, no, no backseat, car, no, no, on the bathrooms. No, no, no, school bathrooms. A medical office, im well, is preferred, at least a doctor who doctor adultterill environment. Yes, and I would cut. I would almost before a female locked as just because like man, you know. Yeah, anyway, and make sure that if, if there was no rest on your life for fetus, if you shood, you worth more than it, and that's something that a lot of people have to deal with because they come from homes that are oppressive, that you are worth more than it. But if you do decide to missue life for that child, that is also okay and it is your body and your choice. They both valid options and they both come with cons and pros. Please do your own research on abortion laws in your state, in your promise and in your country. Make sure you understand how things woke in your country. These are mostly for the America area, as we use Plant parenthood for most information, but Canada can have...

...different laws. Manitoba has probably different laws, Texas probably as different laws. Every place has different laws and how their medical proceizures walk. So please do your research. We say this every time. Do your research, and phood is a great place to look for research. I personally love them for any type of source for pregnancies and puberty and anything to do with your body that you may not understand. Please check them out. We follow them on Instagram and we follow them on twitter. So fucking you don't know what they all go to, all following goes to and you'll see them there somewhere. And just remember that you are valid as fuck. True, true. All right, I have one more thing to add. Yes, listen to the portion with a uterus. Yeah, Um, this is just like if abortion may not be an option for you, to go get it done, you know, safely medically. There are certain herbs or supplements that can cause a very early miscarriage. It has to be pretty early in the pregnancy, but there are some herbs and you should look at them. Yes, so please be aware. There are other methods that are safe. There were always options for you. Do not go with the first one. That comes to your brain, and please do not. Don't do something that. If you choose that, you don't, if you don't understeal life for the fetus, don't, no matter what other people say. Hi, that's don't. Don't do it. Yeah, again, if you choose to, that's also okay. Yes, you all free to do what you want. Whenever going to be like you, you know, I don't know what to say, but you know, whenever gonna, we're not going to judge you for that and no one's to judge you. That's I hit because fell. It is fuck, I don't know why people don't like it. What's can't people just like do the wrong thing right like? It's like when you come up or be the fuck. It's the twenty one century and you're judging someone because I want to eat the fetus. Come on, munch, munch, munch much. Eating a Fetis is consider cannibalism and will not be healthy for you. So this is just a quick deestleame it. Don't actually eat fetuses. Yeah, no, but it's funny and it's funny. Just don't actually do it. Could die, could you? I hear that human skin can we consider poisonous? Is some people. All right, it's get on babies, not on a fetus goes. Yeah, actually, they get their skin and, like the four Stoymester, if you catch them earlier, that's like one of the four things to come in. You need the skindal is the first thing to come in.

Actually, that's not true. Rude. All right, we will see you next week. We will see you next week. If not, we hope you have a good rest of your life and we hope that you decide to do what makes yourself feel better about yourself. Make sure to tune in on Monday to our twitter and tick talk to see what we're doing there on Wednesdays to see your what episodes and what instant and what we're doing instagram and to see we're doing our instagram and tick tock on Friday. Yes, is there anything else to add? My one lovely companion, the luts folk, and we're gonna go kill some people, maybe kill some kill some people who are people, who are going people who are being rude to other people. That's who we're going to kill. And every can't help murder. And and no, don't, God, God, you mean a painfully see you guys. Bye.

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